how would you....... parental relationship

[stevie-bi]

Ok so... Pretend your a parent how would you build a relaitionship with your child so that when he/she starts to "experiment" he/she would openly talk about it and not be scared or embarrased at all....


please include a rating of 1-10 to describe your relationship with parents...

(1 being you hide everything and say nothing, 10 being you talk about everything i.e "mum give me a minute i'm about to cum..")

[Destructor]

i will certainly teach my child that masturbation / experimenting is not wrong/bad/sin/evil, but really i wouldn't want him to tell me all about it, it's really none of my business.

my relationship would be a 2. i don't think they would care that i masturbate, and probably presume i do since well im a 13 year old lol but really it's none of their business and i don't (and shouldn't have to) tell them.

[jacob360]

I would teach my child that they can be open with me and ask questions if they need to, but not to tell me that they do it. I would say my relationship is like a 2 as I don't think they really need to know what I do all the time.

[OregonStateDude]

I'd say my relationship with my parents is about a 6. I'm pretty open with my mom with things, but we rarely talk about sex. And she surely does not need to know that I experiment with my best friend. :eek:

[BaNd]

ummm i deff don't want my kid telling me about the stuff he does. but if he has questions i will most certainly answer them.

[JessDaly]

I'm like a 3

[UTurn]

I would tell my kid about all that stuff before he gets a chance to learn it from some idiot friend's older brother... but i dont wanna know what he does. id be a dad, so i would have a guess at what he was doing anyways. but if he WANTED to tell me, id talk with him about it, but i would never ask. how would you react if your dad walked up and said "Bob, do you masturbate with your friends?" thatd be awkward and unnecessary.

im like a 1 with my parents. maybe a 2 with my mom. me and dad dont really talk about personal stuff.. me and mom talk my friends and stuff sometimes but never ever sex/puberty/masturbating with either parent.

[Unknown-Data]

-1 my parents kno nuttin of my personal life,

Id teach my kid the exact opposite of what I have been taught (I'd teach dat bein gay/bi isn't bad, or anything like dat) Id tell him of my experiences n such so he would feel open to tell me about "experimenting"

[Mortal Coil]

i will certainly teach my child that masturbation / experimenting is not wrong/bad/sin/evil, but really i wouldn't want him to tell me all about it, it's really none of my business.

Yeah, this. And my relationship with my parents is about a 1. I hardly ever talk to them.

[stevie-bi]

If your a 1 or 2....

is that how you want it?

is that your choice?

how would you prefer it to be?

whats the age gap between you and them?

[Mollypop]

I'm like a 2, but my bff's an 8. I kinda wish mine was more like hers.

[Akasuki]

10 with my mom, 1 with my dad.

My mother and I talk about sex if I have a question ( not in a creepy way, just a mother-daughter way ), and she always tells me everything I possibly need to know. I talk to her like I would talk to a friend.

My dad on the other hand, he's really judgmental and he makes stupid jokes about gay people so I don't talk to him about anything. He and I don't have a good relationship anyways.

I would tell my kid everything they need to know about sex when the time comes. If they ask questions, I want them to know that I'm here for them and that I won't judge them.

[MCHIBullDog]

I'm like zero

[karl]

I really have no idea how I would act as a parent. My relationship with my father was negative and with my mother it's a 2/3. I hope that if I ever had children I would be able to talk to them openly

[Devonb97]

I think public school and the internet would teach them lol. Friends start brag about how they have masturbation addictions..

[Devonb97]

Also in 5th, 7th, and 8th they show videos about puberty..

[wolfguy]

i would explainhow it is ok to experiment and that they could tell me anything with no consa awww um wont get in truoble and that i is ok

[Listed MIA]

with my dad its probably like a 9. with my mum its a zero. i haven't lived with her since i was a baby and i only see her like once a year. she's pretty much a stranger.

i like that i can talk about pretty much anything with my dad. it was useful back when i was about 11/12 when people would say stuff about sex that wasn't true, at least i knew the truth. but i probably wouldn't bring my own kid up like i've been brought up. its always been like 2 guys living together, not like one of them is the dad and one is the kid. i would be open about stuff with my kid, say stuff like masturbation is fine, its ok if you are gay etc. but i wouldn't tell them stuff about my own sex life like my dad does to me. really, i don't want to hear about his skanky girlfriends. (maybe if they were nice looking i wouldn't mind so much)

[Pitsirikos]

If I have a chance to be a father I will do with my son what my sister did with me. She explained everything to me, she gave me my privacy in our room and by her way she made me understand that what I was doing was completely normal and I had to feel nice with my body and my experiments!!!

[BKchickenFries]

I would run a semi-nudist home, where you should feel comfortable being naked in your own home (but not in a sexual way) and I think your kid would just naturally be more open about that stuff because they wouldn't see it as a big deal

[cody999]

i wouldnt just tell them everything about sex because its normal for them to find out on their own but i would make sure they new it was ok for them to ask questions and i guess my relationship with my mom is like a 3 and i don't know my dad so hes a -5021

[HEN_iP]

I'm planning to raise my kids in a nudist household anyway so of course I'll be fully open to anything and I'll be sure to teach my kids about everything they need to know about puberty/sex so that they're not misguided or repressed like I was with my parents.

My relationship with my parents, probably 3 or 4.

[Charleigh]

I don't have parents. Or family.

But, it's not something I would imagine a parent and a child getting close about, it's just not right. Kids go through many different stages and fases, but parents need to stand back and not get involved let the kid just discover it. Unless the kid asks, then put your nose in. But never just openly try and discuss something

[OrKing]

Dad: 2/10 - We have more of a 'mate' relationship than a father-son one.

Mum: 4/10 - We get on, but I've never asked her for any advice.

I never talked to either of my parents about anything sexual, I'm not close to my dad and I've never felt any urge to ask my mum or either of my parents for any sort of advice; especially sexual. On the estate I grew up on most people knew what everything was long before they hit puberty anyway and I mainly only hanged around with people 2+ years older than me so never needed to ask anyone anything... It just came naturally through friends and generally living, best way to learn about it in my opinion. Of course, having two elder brothers helped.

If I absolutely had to though, I would give 'my son' the best advice I could if I thought he absolutely needed it... Daughter on the other hand... Awkward, lol. That would be mumsey's job, if that wasn't possible I'd do my best to tell her what was right, that what she was experiencing was natural and that there's nothing wrong with it.

Damn, weird even talking about it. I'm double-rubbering for the next ten years, lol.

[Charleigh]

Damn, weird even talking about it. I'm double-rubbering for the next ten years, lol.

Wearing 2 condoms will split them both because of the friction. Only wear ONE my friend!;)