Sex - waiting for girl to orgasm

[TeenGuy512]

OK, so when you have sex, and the guy has his orgasm, but the girl hasn't, do you keep going - b/c when I j/o, my penis begins to go flacid after a couple minutes.

[Gumleaf]

maybe you could try and hold off orgasm by slowing down to try and get her to orgasm as well. kind of like the stop and go method to make masturbation go longer.

[TeenGuy512]

so how long should you try that for before just giving up and orgasming?

[ThatCanadianGuy]

Your best bet (if you can't last longer) would probably be to finger/masturbate HER until she gets really worked up (close to orgasm). By then she'll most likely be very wet, so it will be easy to "do your thing" so both of you can cum at relatively the same time.

[Maverick]

OK, so when you have sex, and the guy has his orgasm, but the girl hasn't, do you keep going - b/c when I j/o, my penis begins to go flacid after a couple minutes.
After you orgasm, you're done. You can't keep going, especially if you're wearing a condom. After you orgasm, you need to stop immediately otherwise the condom can slip off and spill which can get her pregnant.

Most girls can't orgasm on penetration alone so you'll have to find other ways to get her to orgasm whether it be oral sex or fingering.
so how long should you try that for before just giving up and orgasming?
It depends on the girl - we can't speak for her. Sex requires a lot of communication so that's something you'll have to work out with her. Plus, you yourself can only last for so long.

[Sunrider]

You could try using oral sex or fingering on her before you penetrate, this way she is part way there when you penetrate.

[DarkWingedAngel]

if she lets u u should rub her clit or something so she will orgasm when u penetrate her or finger her where she likes it or where she feels confertable

[Triple7]

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