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Justneedtotalk
June 8th, 2012, 02:36 PM
I am noticing that I look at and think about the guys I play sports with a lot and really stare at my older brothers friends but still think I am straight just not sure...not sure how to tell? Does anyone else feel this way? Is it normal?
ImCoolBeans
June 8th, 2012, 03:14 PM
Do you feel a strong emotional feeling for men? Because if you can't picture yourself having a relationship, spending your life with, or being with a guy in general then I think you more than likely would not be gay. Being gay is feeling the same feeling that a straight man feels about a woman, but it's geared towards a guy instead - it's not all about sex and physical attraction.
Curiosity is something that a lot of teens go through, and since you're clearly a teenager and going through puberty, you're hormones are a little out of whack so it could just be sexual curiosity. But thats something that you really need to answer for yourself; can you see yourself dating a man? Do you have those deeply rooted, emotional feelings for boys?
Take a look at this thread: http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=125182 - I wrote a good part of it and I think it might be beneficial to you - giving some insight into what sexuality really is, and understanding it a little better.
Tiggz
June 8th, 2012, 11:24 PM
i feel the same way it probaly just hormones tho
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