Sex

[Jopal]

I just wanted to take a poll. How many of you think is "OK" to have sex before you get married? Or to have sex in a relationship just because you're "intimate" and have been going out for a long time. I want to see what this generation thinks about having sex when so young.

[Maverick]

Just because you have sex before marriage doesn't mean you have it young. Plenty of people in their late teens, twenties, thirties, any age group have sex before marriage. Personally waiting until marriage I don't think is necessary. It wouldn't be a rule I'd follow.

[Jopal]

Well i just said young because this is a teen site. I know people have sex at any age. Why don't you think it's necessary. What if that person you have sex with before marriage is not the person who becomes you soulmate in life? Having sex with more than one person it, believe it or not, committing adultry {or to have sex with someone elses spouse}. It's not a rule, but immoral to have sex outside of marriage, which many teens todays are choosing to go and do.

[RowanVer.3.0]

There is no such thing as one set soul-mate. The world is made up or random-generation, no two people are alike, but there are many that are somewhat alike. Sure, there may be someone who you end up with forever, and maybe you will be 'soul-mates'... But that's not to say that there isn't 100 other people in this world that you could've ended up happily with as well. Six and a half billion is a large number.

Also, don't start with the Christianity... If you want to preach religion, become a minister/priest/what-have-you. Things mate in the wild as soon as they are fertile daily. It's the way nature is. However, humans are different, they have to mature physically AND mentally before mating.

Sex feels good, and if you want to partake in it before you're married or even before you're 18, go the heck ahead! If you feel ready, and your partner feels ready then go for it! It's a lot of responsibility to raise a child, and so you should use protection, or be ready for parenthood(ex:good job, morals, et cetera)

It's not immoral, it's human nature. Get used to it. People have been having sex between ages 13-18 since the dawn of time! Only now, we have a way of preventing children until we are ready, which is great.

[Maverick]

Yes, it's a religious rule. I'm not religious therefore I really don't care what these "rules" are. I'm aware they exist but I chose not to follow them. Personally I wouldn't want to have sex with someone until I knew they were the one. I wouldn't need the security of a marriage before having sex.

I believe committing adultery is having sex with someone else while you're legally married to someone. After divorce it's no longer adultery as you are no longer bound legally to that person. I know some people think sex with anyone else after you married once is adultery but I disagree.

Multiple partners aren't ideal to me. But shit happens; divorce, break ups, death, etc. so I believe if those circumstances arise and I move on and find someone else, I would not be committing adultery seeing that I'm no longer involved with the other person.

One thing I would not do is run around with multiple partners with people I wasn't sure was the one or cheat. As long as I'm with a person I will be committed to them and if something happens I will move on to someone else (which I hope wouldn't have to happen but with life anything can happen).

If we wait until marriage, great! If we don't, that's great, too! But we will decide what's best for us on what we think, not because its some ancient rule.

[MoveAlong]

I think it's fine to have sex before marriage, and I'm not going to wait until gay marriage is legalized so I can finally have sex! :P
I just think both people should be ready and they should be at least 16+ before going for sex, and they both should use protection

[Gumleaf]

my religious beliefs say no for sex before marriage. however, its really just up to the individual couples to decide. but my personal choice would be to wait, if i can last that long.

[Sapphire]

I don't see anything wrong with sex before marriage. So what if they aren't "the one"? Some people go through 80 years without finding "the one".

I compartmentalise a lot of things in life. Sex and love are two of them. It is possible for me to love someone without the sex, but equally it is possible for me to have sex with someone without loving them. I do have morals, they just differ from yours. I am not doing immoral things either as it is natural and I am human.

I think the only truly immoral things that one can do with regards to sex are: cheat on a partner/husband/wife, sexually abuse someone or have the intent to sexually abuse someone (grooming).

[0=]

Sex before marriage is fine as long as you use protection. You don't want to end up with a child with someone who's not committed to you or vice versa.

[Glasgow]

Nothing wrong with it, infact most people in this world have sex before marriage. Just use protection as 0= said

[deadpaw]

I think it's fine to have sex before marriage, and I'm not going to wait until gay marriage is legalized so I can finally have sex! :P

Yuh know, it is legal in the UK. My friend has two mum's who are married. And i also went to a gay wedding beginning of this year. :D

[Break the Cage]

If you both want to have sex, and you both have hit puberty(obviously) then its all good.

[Crazysam]

Sex before marrige is finE in my books! :D

[Archduke Robert of France]

I think it's fine.

[Golden_suger]

hi

in my opinion . i prefer to have sex after u get married.

i know alot of people against me . but this what i think is right.

[Sugaree]

why would having sex before marriage be a rule? it doesn't matter

[0=]

In some countries sex is casual; like a first date thing. It depends on where you live what's acceptable and what isn't. Of course the world would be a pretty boring place if we were all politically correct.

[Silverfist64]

i think its ok to have sex before marriage. Many people arent gonna wait to see how it feels or whatever. Some people dont get married until their in the thirties or even their forties. Thats an offly long time to wait.

[Sage]

It's perfectly fine to have sex before marraige, but it is much wiser to wait until marraige.

[Indian gal]

I'm waiting till marriage. I don't believe in sex before marriage, it is not my religion's custom and I won't go against my parents or religion.