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Elizabetha
June 8th, 2012, 10:05 AM
Hey there..this is very embarrasing for me . I am 17 and I have not kissed yet. and when i mean kiss i mean a proper kiss not just touching lips. please dont make me feel even worst . Is there any kind of advice you could give to me ? Is there someone that hasnt had their first passionate kiss yet? :whoops:
byknott
June 8th, 2012, 10:30 AM
While I have had mine, I have a very close friend and she is twenty years old and has not had her first kiss. When she and I talk about it, she says she's gotten the better end of the stick than me. Why? Because my first kiss was when I was fourteen. It was not special, and I can hardly think of it without cringing at how stupid I was. Now that she's older she can make better choices and because of the wait, her first kiss is pretty much guaranteed to be something SPECIAL. Yours will be, too.
Just wait (: You want that first kiss to be ah-mazing, not rushed. Trust me.
Elizabetha
June 8th, 2012, 10:33 AM
Thank you x But what did u do wrong.. if you were to do it again what would you change ?
byknott
June 8th, 2012, 10:41 AM
Well, I wouldn't have even dated the guy I kissed. He was an idiot, but that wasn't exactly clear to me when I was fourteen. I didn't keep my first kiss as just a kiss - it went farther, and we also made out. I really wish I had kept my first kiss simpler and more innocent, so I could look back on it a bit more fondly.
Jean Poutine
June 8th, 2012, 11:37 AM
I had my first kiss at 21. It was glorious.
It was sweet, simple, and shared with a person I thoroughly love. I'm so glad I didn't throw it away to the first comer.
Elizabetha
June 8th, 2012, 12:43 PM
Thats really sweet that made me feel so much better. I want to enjoy it but I dont want to make an epic fail out of it.Does it just come to you?
Jean Poutine
June 8th, 2012, 01:02 PM
The awkwardness of the first kiss is part of what makes it so beautiful. My girlfriend and I exchanged first kisses so to speak, so we were pretty bad at it. It's why it was so awesome.
TheMatrix
June 8th, 2012, 01:13 PM
Sexuality :arrow: Relationships and Dating
Elizabetha
June 8th, 2012, 03:05 PM
That is amazing and I hope it will be the same with me
Gandalf
June 8th, 2012, 04:02 PM
I'm 16 and I only kissed properly this week. I really feel inadequate at times and I never realised that I would be in a relationship (although I had to end it) this year. Things you never expect will happen. Don't worry about it.
SinisterMystery
June 8th, 2012, 04:16 PM
I was 16 and it was with the girl I really love, it was heaven.
Elizabetha
June 8th, 2012, 06:51 PM
Thank you for the sincere answers . I just hope it will not be embarassing and How long did it take for you to learn how to kiss properly ? Because practice makes purrfect
unnamed94
June 10th, 2012, 11:08 PM
when i talk to people about this kind of stuff, most of them (including me) would have waited longer for it to be special and with someone special for them. do it with someone you love and you will never look back at that moment and regret about it. for example i had mine at a party, i dont remember it that much because i was a little drunk and i cant even remember her name or her face that well.
Aves
June 11th, 2012, 02:14 AM
I didn't have my first kiss until I was 16. It was special, because it was with the girl I had a crush on for 5 months prior. If it's with someone you feel greatly for, it will be much better than with somebody who you don't have any great feelings for.
Just wait. It'll be worth it. Fuck anyone who tells you it's pathetic.
ATC1
June 11th, 2012, 03:48 AM
I'm sixteen and yet to even get close to my first kiss ... It'll happen when it happens :)
Michael44
June 11th, 2012, 05:36 AM
My first kiss was when I was almost 15 and I had fallen Inlove with this girl I was about to kiss! And it felt like we were getting married! Was the happiest day of my life! It was at school behind a classroom and it was raining! Just as we started kissing the bell went off and all our friends walked out and were watching us kiss! But we didn't stop it was the best day of my life to this day I still love that girl but she let me go :'(
FullyAlive
June 11th, 2012, 04:24 PM
Mine was 12 maybe 13 I don't remember with a guy in the year above in the trees down my road lol haven't spoken to him since we broke up after out very very short not so sweet relationship. It was barely a relationship and I'd much rather have waited.
You don't need to worry about not having kissed anyone yet you'll find someone soon and it'll be much better.
Black.Veil.Brides
June 12th, 2012, 02:22 PM
mine was 13 in the rain [:
yhu havent had yhur first REAL kiss? SO WHAT!!! yhu have absolutely nothing to be ashamed of. wait for that someone special [:
Elizabetha
June 14th, 2012, 03:48 PM
Thank you for the supportive answers
SLABBS
June 16th, 2012, 05:11 PM
first kiss at 15. we were laying on the couch. was long and slow and passionate and perfect. the lead up to it was perfect. i couldnt have asked for a better first kiss. :3 but dont worry. it will come eventually. youll meet a girl you think is totally awesome and if you dont rush it and let it come slowly it will be magical for you. trust me :P
Nihilus
June 16th, 2012, 11:32 PM
Your not alone. I'm 18 and have never been kissed or kissed a girl. Don't feel pressured to do it. Wait until it happens... and then enjoy it.
Jess
June 17th, 2012, 04:53 PM
Hey there..this is very embarrasing for me . I am 17 and I have not kissed yet. and when i mean kiss i mean a proper kiss not just touching lips. please dont make me feel even worst . Is there any kind of advice you could give to me ? Is there someone that hasnt had their first passionate kiss yet? :whoops:
I've never had one.
aaayyoo_avery
June 26th, 2012, 05:54 PM
first kiss at 13 with the girl im still dating now:) :heart: on this bridge late at night :P
Syam
June 27th, 2012, 08:44 AM
Mine was when I was 11, hate the girl now. Turns out she was a 'user'.
jnhbgvbhgv21
June 27th, 2012, 10:50 AM
Just wait until you find someone perfect you want to share the moment with. When it does happen, just take things slow and relaxed, making sure now to be pushy.
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