Kissless virgin---ashasmed

[nirvana27]

I'm almost 16 and I've never even kissed a girl, let alone had sex or gotten a blowjob or anything.
I feel awful about it.

Anyone care to give me any tips on not feeling awful about it (or just how to get a girlfriend :P)?

[Green Arrow]

It's not a bad thing at all so don't get down on it. It just shows that you#re waiting for the right person and not running around the place saying "FUCK ME, FUCK ME NOW!" like some people do. Don't feel bad. :)

[StoppingTime]

There is absolutely no reason you should feel bad about yourself. Honestly, I don't think people should say feel great because they had sex at 13-14 or whatever, but I also don't think it's right to advertise that you're "virgin and proud" to everyone.
Just take you're time, and do it when you're ready. There's to rush, so don't feel bad.

[FullyAlive]

:arrow2: relationships and dating

[Spreadingwings]

Don't feel so bad, girls like confidence, and get a girl for the right reasons not to fill a void. If you want a GF then talk to a girl you like, be your self and show that you like her in a respectful way.

[Guillermo]

I'm 17 and I've never had a real kiss (just a pec on the lips). Does that make you feel less awful? Lol
But there's nothing wrong with it at all. You're just waiting for the right person. Sometimes these things take time and when it actually happens, I'm sure you'll be happy that you waited.

[jessiecox1]

Don't worry about it...things will just naturally happen. You seem to want to wait for the right person to do those things with, and I think someday you'll look back and be happy that you did.

[LuckyLuke]

I had my first kiss at 17 and I'm sincerely glad I'm waited.

It made that kiss so, so much better that I had a hot girl that I actually cared about to share it with.

[Spreadingwings]

I'm almost 16 and I've never even kissed a girl, let alone had sex or gotten a blowjob or anything.
I feel awful about it.

Anyone care to give me any tips on not feeling awful about it (or just how to get a girlfriend :P)?

You shouldn't feel awful about that, sex and kises aren't rights of passage or anything like that. You should be with a girl for the right reasons, non of which are kisses or sex. but dont worry I felt like that last year when I was 16, and you know what happened? A beautiful, smart, respectable, and kind girl came into my life and we became BF AND GF, she was my first kiss. :D but what im trying to say with that story is that there is no need to rush, someone will come to you when you are ready, but treat them well.

[Jean Poutine]

Had my first kiss at 21. Don't fret, padawan.

[HahaWaitWhat]

Don't worry about it, I'm 16 and I haven't done anything sexual and I just got my first kiss in September last year. So yeah you're not alone!(:

[Mortal Coil]

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I'm coming from the other extreme here, but I lost my virginity when I was too young and it took me years to recover from that. You'll find someone, okay? Until then, you're unique :D
And for what it's worth, I've never had a boyfriend, so I can kind of relate. It sucks. You feel like nobody could possibly love you, which gives way to all kinds of self-hatred and stuff, but I can promise you that you're going to find someone.

[Jess]

all those are nothing to be ashamed of. I'm older than you and I've never dated

[Josh16]

In the same situation as you. I don't feel awful about it, just waiting for the right girl really. As the saying goes "good things come to those who wait" :)

[Aquila]

I'm almost 19, and never been kissed. And I hate myself because of it! :D

What keeps me going though, is when I look at middle-aged people, and how many of them actually are in a relationship and/or married. There really does appear to be somebody for everyone.

[jakeisback]

I have never kissed a girl or anything!

[nirvana27]

Thanks a lot, guys.

This is probably the first time I've actually felt better about such a big issue from a forum.

Seriously, thanks.

The problem is I think my brain just wants to be depressed by it, because something something evolution continuing the species blah blah blah. I should try harder to get out of that mindset, it seems.

[Aves]

I had my first kiss when I was 16. Don't worry about being almost 16 and not having kissed anyone. It's not worth your time.

Sex is no rush whatsoever. I'm 18, haven't even gotten close to sex, and I have no problem with it. Why? Cause I have no problem in waiting, and neither should you. Just wait and when it happens, it will happen.

[DarthMayim]

Its nothing to be ashamed of bro :P I'm in the same situation ;)

[Cherry Garcia]

Nothing to be ashamed of dude, trust me. I had my first kiss when I was 14, but that was just about the last one too. And that sucks even more, because once you get a taste of a woman who knows how to kiss, friday night's alone feel just that much more lonely. Lmao. I haven't gotten to any of that stuff either (although I did manage to snag a quick boob squeeze in there :yeah: ) our time will come, dont worry dude good luck

[Cognizant]

I'm almost 16 and I've never even kissed a girl, let alone had sex or gotten a blowjob or anything.
I feel awful about it.

Anyone care to give me any tips on not feeling awful about it (or just how to get a girlfriend :P)?

DOn't worry? It's nothing really to worry about. Most people experiment with sex in their twenties/college years, and as far as kissing, perfectly normal as well.
If it makes you feel better, I'm a kissless virgin too. :)

[Black.Veil.Brides]

dont worry!! someday yhu will get yhur kiss [: its better not to stress!! yhu dont want to make a decision yhu will a) regret (or) b) will never be able to take back..

[BrassMonkey]

Dude, dont feel bad about it. Thats nothing to feel bad about. Im 15 and I also havent had a kiss by a girl. I have never been in a relationship. Dont worry, you will get that kiss someday and I bet it would be one you will never forget.

[Fresh]

I'm in the same situation ^^. Don't feel ashamed.
I think of people like us as....Unicorns:P Pureness.

[WiiRemoter]

Im in the same boat as you dude, no biggie. When it happens, it happens.