Oh hey, it's me again. Rant time!

[Buranri]

Yaaaay, rants! I don't feel like talking to any of my friends about this, because I've spent plenty of time bitching to them about the same thing and I'd just feel like an asshole. I'm not really expecting responses to this, I just want to complain. Respond if you want, idc.

I hate relationships. Or specifically, I hate my complete and utter lack of ability in terms of getting into relationships. It's not that I don't talk to people, or I'm not outgoing I just don't talk a lot when I'm with people I don't know very well. When I'm hanging out with my guy friends I'm fine. I'm fine when I'm hanging out with girls I've known for a while, for that matter. It's just new people I don't talk so much around. I'm not one of those people who just naturally flirt with everyone, which sucks since those tend to be the people who are in relationships. I mean, I have a friend who has been single for maybe a month since freshman year. We're finishing junior year now. Hell, even during the times he was "single" he was hooking up with people. I just don't understand how they fuck he does that, how he always manages to have girls interested in. I mean I'm not the most attractive person, I can admit that, but it's not like I'm ugly. Just not the guy girls look at and say "wow". I'd like to consider myself fairly funny once I'm comfortable talking to someone. Newer people, less so, but mostly cause I just don't know them so I don't have as much to draw from for making jokes.

Am I just... Doing it wrong? Whatever it is. I just don't meet people. I mostly stay with the same group of friends. I don't get how my friend constantly is finding new girls, new girls he's interested in, and always manages to get somewhere with them. I haven't had a girl I'm interested in since march, and it sucks. Even more so with every single one of my friends, except me, both 1. In a relationship and 2. Not virgins. Yeah, whatever. I shouldn't base myself off what my friends do. But I'm not one of those wait till marriage types, I want to have sex. I just can't get a girlfriend to save my life.

That's my rant. Do with it what you want, but I doubt there's really anything to do.

[JakeRS]

It has nothing to do with your looks,it has with confidence,why do you think that women like to go out with assholes and jerks,who btw are often ugly? its because they have confidence,that's the thing that turns women on,not looks like it does at man,they also like when a guy has a lot friends and is ,,dominant,, so to say,and that's it,that however doesn't mean that you have to be a jerk,you just have to find a girl that is not into guys that are like that and you won't find girls like that on parties,pools,etc. because they don't go out mostly or do in some cases,but don't have guys around them,but only their female friends,they are the more quiet type of girls,also even if you tried asking a girl out and she rejected you,you shouldn't give up,you should wait some time and in the meanwhile talk to her and stuff to make her feel like you are an ok guy and then try to ask her out again,after a month or a few,if she rejected you she probably did it because of one of 2 reasons,or both of them:1.you seemed shy in her eyes and 2.she had a boyfriend,i sadly have been rejected for the both reasons in the same time,but she doesn't have a bf anymore,so i will try to ask her out again this week.

[Buranri]

That's the thing, I feel confident, I don't feel shy. I just don't always talk a lot. There's probably just not a different there.