well where do i begin?

[purpleninjacookie]

Ummm....I so glad this site allows me to talk to other teens for support....where do I begin...i started having sexual feelings for guys when I was really young. I remember trying to convince my cousin to show me his "pee pee ".
Welll lets talk about my 7th grade year.I was madly in love with guy named Matthew.his best friend Paul hated me because he thought I took Matthew away from him as a friend....because we were best friends....and at this time everyone thought I was straight all it was just a fight for friendship...then Matthew started liking this girl I knew named Rachel and i got super jealous for some reason....and I remember talking to him about Rachel and he would always tell me how much he loved her....and I rememeber my feelings breaking apart so much that year....I can truly say I love that boy....its a super long love story with many twists....and if you would like to know more just message me because my feelings and discriptions of what ive been through would be way too long....all I know is that I am gay....and just recently this year I have come out to my friends and to my surprise they excepted me :)......now for my parents.....ugh....welll my sister is also gay....or lesbian.....and my family excepts her and they love her so much....they just got mad because the way she came out....she ran away and told the police my parents beat her....yeah my life is crazy....and in 6th grade I got curious and started watching gay porn...and yes....my parents did find out because at that time I knew nothing about the HISTORY BUTTON.and they asked me of I was gay at that time and I just told them I wasn't and that I was curious....and now o want to come out to them....but how will they take ot when they find out they have TWO GAY CHILDREN!!!! I'm so scared....I'm not pike super girly...actually most of my friends thought I was lying when I told them I was gay because I'm very manly on some ways....in the end....i want to come out to my parents....but i don't know how to find the right time....my parents argue so much and their getting a divorce...their both super stressed.....please tell me what you think of my tiny summary of my story.....and leave some good advice and support....because I really need it :(

[joshwinston]

well, I think you should try and find a peaceful time when both your parents seem to be happy and not stressed and calmly tell them. If they accepted your sister then i would think they would be ok with accepting you. and i know how you feel about Matthew. when i was in 8th grade i had this huge crush on my best friend but sadly he didn't feel the same way. for a while i was kind of depressed but i got over it with the help of my friends :) good luck!

[Hermes96]

wait intill you a hundred % and then tell them. don't do what i did and just blurt out that you like men go slow and be prepared for a bad rection ( it probley won't be just make sure you know that they might not be a 100 % with it ) also make sure you have some one you can go to if it go's wrong like a mate

[Jay_Swagg_LOL]

Sit them down and take it slow...tell them how you've been having "certain feelings" for the opposite sex. Make sure that they understand that you need them for guidance. I'm not sure this would work but its a nice try good luck dude.

[Jay_Swagg_LOL]

Btw I wanna hear the full story

[JonasBe]

Yeah, do it when they are calm.
But even if you denied it, they probably know anyway. So it won't be as big of a surprise to them.

[justin 13]

Dude believe me u dont need to rush things in that way. Wait a bit when ur folks r in a better moment of their lives. My dad thinks Im gay, but I know he is not ready 2 listen that truth.