Mom's Death

[jacob360]

My mom passed away in February. I mean I have a great support system around me and everything, but it's just sad to think that she wont see me graduate college, get married, see her grandkids or anything. It's just I seem to get depressed everytime I think about it. Any suggestions?

[Thunderstorm]

Sorry for your Mom's passing :(
Well, first of all, listen to this. Your mom is up there. She is watching you. She is there for you. She will see your life. she is safe and happy on the other side. Don't worry. She''l always be keeping you safe and she'll be there for you.

Next, well, it's more than just support. If it's really taken a toll, go to a guideance counselor or another close family member. I know when a main adult figure passes in your life, most kids gravitate towards an Aunt or Grandma, especially if it was a woman who died.
Also, make sure your Dad is okay. He will be taking care of you for the rest of your life, and eventually, you'll be taking care of him. If he's not there to support the family, then the whole family will fall apart. We don't want that.

[TwilightFan]

I am so sorry for your loss. :( They say the first year is the hardest. I know it might be stupid to hear something like that, cause it's such a clique, but perhaps you shouldn't focus on that things. Ofcourse they make you depressed, they're really sad. I'd suggest you'd do this: whenever you think: "My mom won't see my graduate college," you think: "But she did see, how happy I was, when I got my first A." You know, don't focus on the depressing things, cause it's nothing you can do about it; you should thing about the good times you had with her.

Hope I could help ...