Question (for the girls probably)

[TeenGuy512]

I went to a private school so we didn't get sex ed - my dad told me some stuff, but he forgot to tell me the whole sex talk (it's a long weird story - he thinks he told me but he didn't).

My sister's friend (who I'm close to) has no clue about sex stuff either. I'm 17 and she's 16 - so would it be OK to talk to her in depth about my questions?

I have a girlfriend - but she's kinda conservative and I don't want to ask her.

[Sunrider]

If you're going to ask your sister's friend about sex and stuff make sure she, your sister, and your girlfriend are comfortable of you asking her because you don't want to hurt relationships with any of them. Also, make sure your sister's friend understands that you are just wondering, not looking for anything but knowledge.

Personally, I think it would be nice to have a friend to ask. ;)

[TeenGuy512]

Well - since my sister's friend was never talked to - she's kinda (obnoxiously at times) open about it - so I know the opportunity will just come up some time. She gets really confused about terms - and she just will say something really random - so it'd be like me doing her a favor and her doing me a favor - although I wasn't planning on saying anything to my g/f - and just not telling her about it at all.

[MoveAlong]

I agree with Sunrider :D As long as you keep it cool with your sis, it'll probably be cool. Although I wouldn't get into detail about it. It would be better to ask really personal questions to a friend.

You could also look it up, especially on www.teenwire.com. TeenWire is an affiliate of Planned Parenthood and is a great site to find out things about sex, reproduction and puberty.

[Maverick]

It really depends how close you are. The fact that you're a boy and she's a girl may make her uncomfortable and awkward.

Why do you feel the need to have this conversation? Is it for her sake or yours? If you have questions you have here and VT to get them answered. Seeing that she's 16 I'm sure she's old enough to find information so I don't see it necessary to have, but it's up to you.

[MoveAlong]

I agree with Anthony
Nice job on the advice lately ;-)

[Sunrider]

You might not want to full out ask your girlfriend but I would try to tell her otherwise if she finds out she could get upset.

[TeenGuy512]

We're close - I just said "sister's friend" because they were friends before me and her were. And I'd just rather ask her questions than look on the internet - b/c not all of my specific questions have answers that I could find.

[Maverick]

You might not want to full out ask your girlfriend but I would try to tell her otherwise if she finds out she could get upset.
I really doubt his girlfriend would be completely ok with him talking to another girl about sex. In my opinion it would be considered out of bounds and it would be very hard to see innocence in the situation. Seriously, think out these situations and predict how the average person would react.

We're close - I just said "sister's friend" because they were friends before me and her were. And I'd just rather ask her questions than look on the internet - b/c not all of my specific questions have answers that I could find.
Ask your questions here. We're here to help. Asking her can make her very uncomfortable - I wouldn't advise putting her in such a position.

[Sunrider]

I believe Anthony is right, just ask here otherwise you might lose a friend and or girlfriend.

[kutethang101]

Anthony is kinda right,
but fallow ur heart and ur mind and the right answer will pop up trust me

[emowhotxts]

u can ask her as long as u dont do it together ok

[TeenGuy512]

u can ask her as long as u dont do it together ok

Trust me - she's not that kind of girl (and I'm not that kind of guy).

[Silverfist64]

Being that she doesnt know alot herself you should just ask the people her because we probably know more or just the same amount. I personally wouldnt chance it. Its you decision

[Senor Goose]

I agree with them