Getting off by wrestling!?! Help!

[Tanner123]

So guys, when I get home from school after football practice my best friend is usually outside, when he is i usually go over and we either play basketball or wrestle, but when we wrestle I still have my cup on and I use it to hid my boner and I get off in my pants when I'm on top of him.(Yes, I'm gay and he doesn't know), do you think this is alright to continue?

[Panelguy1]

I don't think it matters as long as he doesn't know. Just make sure that cup stays on, one slip and your secret is out.

[Light Warrior 7]

What's this "cup" you're talking about?? I'm a bit confused ._.

i think you should avoid doing so.. I mean, it's like taking advantage of him in a rather secretive way. Just saying ^_^

[Tanner123]

It has to do with American football, it is a hard plastic piece that is worn to protect your balls when playing

[Light Warrior 7]

It has to do with American football, it is a hard plastic piece that is worn to protect your balls when playing


Oh ok, kind of like a supporter?? Is it really called a cup?? :D Haha, if it is, really weird name for such a useful object ^_^

[AndCuriousGuy16]

Well i would maybe continue if you are planning on telling him that your gay. If not, i would leave it alone.

[SmileyFace13]

everything is perfectly normal,just make sure your cup stays on cause if that thing is off and he finds out then he knows everything already.

[ImCoolBeans]

I wouldn't be too happy if my best friend liked to wrestle with me just so he could get himself off, let alone get himself off while we're actually still wrestling.

[Conradnny]

This is a really good question. I'd say you've got a few things going on at the same time. You're definitely having a good time getting off while wrestling with your buddy. I'm a wrestler here at prep and I think I'd like to know if my friend was getting off "to me" while wrestling. You might want to find a way of talking with your friend to let him know what's happening or at least that wrestling with him gives you a boner that makes you cum. See how he feels about it. Question, I take it you've got gear on, but when I wrestle it's just a singlet and you definitely can tell when the other dude is getting a boner. So, can you tell if he's getting a boner or he wearing gear as well? Maybe he's feeling the same, maybe not, but at least give him the opportunity to see if he's cool with it. He might enjoy it to? OH, is there a certain position that gets you off?

[Sean4U]

Its not unusual as Conradnny said that when you wrestle with a guy you get a boner. My brother wrestles and many times during practice and meets I've seen guys hard when they were in tight body contact. Honestly never seen wrestlers with cups during wrestling so that is unusual to me, but getting off as you do I've never heard of. Conradnny asks a valid question -- does he get hard when you wrestle, have you noticed? Chances are if he does he might have some feelings or maybe think you are getting off on it and likes it. Or, he just gets hard which is not unusual in that situation. Are you attracted to him (sure sounds like it) and if you are you might want to stop if you aren't going to come out to him or tell him and see where it leads --- IF you're ready that is



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Sean | Male | 15

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[minecraftmstr]

i think its just you like him a bit and getting that close to him you got aroused.
i get plenty of weird boners to like when in boy scouts i had to practes the heimlick

[teenageapplelover]

You're really using your friend in a bad way if you are wrestling with him just to get sexual gratification. He thinks you two are just playfully wrestling when you are using it to gratify yourself, and morally, that's just not right. If you tell him that you find gratification in it (even if he doesn't know you're gay) and he doesn't care, then whatever. But you should at least tell him, and if you won't do that, stop.