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Storycon
June 4th, 2012, 11:22 PM
I am a average 15 year old, i am in the middle of puberty. I have some pubic hair and armpit hair, very little facial hair yet, I want to show my dad my penis and see if it a normal sized, it is 4.5-5.0 inches hard and 2.5 soft, is this normal, I also want to talk to him about my other puberty signs, how do I bring this up in a normal conversation

SWMG
June 4th, 2012, 11:27 PM
Hey, well just ask him something like: "at age did you start shaving" and then I'm sure he will be asking you some questions and then you can move on the growing topic and stuff like. However, don't try to be too pushy or insistent, let it go as it comes.

Hope this helps dude

Cicero
June 4th, 2012, 11:39 PM
Damn your brave. I think it's normal wanting to know the signs of puberty or whatever. But it's not good to show him your dick. Just bring up something like "What age did you start shaving/getting leg hair/getting pubic hair/getting a deeper voice" and etc.

Young Wolf
June 5th, 2012, 02:22 AM
Best left alone and go with the flow. Just enjoy all of it especially jo.

Victor
June 5th, 2012, 03:28 AM
I personally wouldn't want to compare with anyone, because then you'd start feeling self conscious if you were smaller then the rest.
Its like walking on a sky-scraper balcony and looking down..

Black.Butler
June 5th, 2012, 07:40 AM
I think that would be very, VERY awkward for your dad. Just do what everyone else says and just bring up shaving and then change subject gradually getting further to penis/balls/length etc but I would leave asking him to have a look out

Short Circuit
June 5th, 2012, 09:49 AM
If you have a good relationship with your dad, you should be able to talk to him about anything. However, I would suggest that you leave the show and tell alone, unless your comfortable with walking around the house naked.

megatime
June 5th, 2012, 03:17 PM
I had the same feelin but one time on hol he saw me naked as I wos growing hairs.We showered in the communal showers at the camp site.

wild1
June 5th, 2012, 04:02 PM
You really don't need to talk to your dad about puberty or show him because you're normally developing. :)

dgski
June 5th, 2012, 04:17 PM
Everyone developes at a different rate, even offspring from their parents are different.

Eric57
June 5th, 2012, 04:34 PM
I don't think it's necessary for you to really do that, as it sounds like you are developing normally, but if it's something you really want to talk to him about, then go ahead. Like others said, I would just casually bring up shaving or something of the sort. Then after that the conversation will probably flow into other areas or puberty. If it doesn't, then after you talk about shaving, you can maybe ask when he started growing armpit hair, pubic hair, etc.

About showing your dad your penis... That's definitely something you should probably ask at the end of the conversation. By the end, you'll both probably be more comfortable. Maybe you could ask him what size your penis should be at the age you are and ask what age his penis got to it's full length. If you ask that, then I'm sure you won't really need to actually whip it out and compare.

spw184
June 5th, 2012, 05:15 PM
Don't show your dad your penis... He will not appreciate that.

aaayyoo_avery
June 28th, 2012, 05:52 AM
Dont have a dad.. so i cant reply to that but hey your just starting..never know what might happen
just be happy with your body :)

Green Arrow
June 28th, 2012, 05:54 AM
It really depends on how good your relationship is with your dad to be honest. If you've got a close relationship and it wouldn't be that awkward, and you really want to do it. Then go ahead and ask him. Your penis size is normal so don't worry about that though. :)

NotASpyingRent
June 29th, 2012, 06:23 PM
I am a average 15 year old, i am in the middle of puberty. I have some pubic hair and armpit hair, very little facial hair yet, I want to show my dad my penis and see if it a normal sized, it is 4.5-5.0 inches hard and 2.5 soft, is this normal, I also want to talk to him about my other puberty signs, how do I bring this up in a normal conversation

Show him your penis? I don't like where this is going.

adam94
June 29th, 2012, 09:47 PM
It is great your that open with your dad!!

Evancosta
June 29th, 2012, 10:17 PM
I don't see a problem with it. But why do you need to do that? You have ACTUAL teens on this website going through the same things...

Luke91
July 1st, 2012, 08:50 PM
It is great you want to be open with your dad. You might arrange to have him accidentally see you naked like when taking a shower. Then you might bring up your questions. It was had for me when I wanted to ask my parents if I could get circumcised. Finally after I did I was so glad I talked with them. If you don't think you can ask your dad your questions, you might write him a note and just say "dad there is something I would like to talk with you about privately".

PleasureMe7777
August 6th, 2012, 09:36 PM
Its great that u have that type of relationship with your dad!!

Michael Anthony
August 6th, 2012, 09:43 PM
go ahead and do it. i like having talks like that with my dad. i think we are a lot closer becaue of it