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bond1141
June 4th, 2012, 08:10 PM
I must admit I enjoy jacking to gay porn. Does this make me gay or even partially gay? I'm 14

StoppingTime
June 4th, 2012, 08:13 PM
No, this doesn't make you gay at all. Most likely, you are just a curious teen, and there isn't anything wrong with that.

Erasmus
June 4th, 2012, 08:19 PM
No, this doesn't make you gay at all. Most likely, you are just a curious teen, and there isn't anything wrong with that.

Yeah, exactly what Steven said. You're going through puberty, and it's totally natural to be curious.

horde
June 4th, 2012, 08:30 PM
No. As a young person going through puberty, everything tends to be a turn on. I don't think one can really make a definite conclusion about one's sexuality until your probably late teens or early 20's.

Tiggz
June 4th, 2012, 08:40 PM
Nope not really just a little curios

cerney
June 4th, 2012, 08:41 PM
dude i jack off with friends to gay porn, and im strait as an arrow. is normal.

Soccer-is-life
June 4th, 2012, 09:41 PM
I watch it.. Girls in regular porn get annoying when they do all the fake moans... With gay porn it's just sex and not played out which is a turn on :p

Cognizant
June 4th, 2012, 09:43 PM
Even straight men enjoy gay pornography. You're fine. Finding a video entertaining that is supposed to entertain does not make you gay.

Stryker125
June 4th, 2012, 10:10 PM
Nope.

Lego
June 5th, 2012, 01:50 AM
If you were my age (17) i dont really consider it the norm for a STRAIGHT guy to enjoy GAY porn but if its a curious phase thats fine. i went through as well about that age. Think about women though. In my opinion you ahould break yourself from stuff like this to grow up straight, if thats what you want ;) It is fairly common and if you really do enjoy it, who am i to tell you not to do it haha. Do what feels right in your heart.

Victor
June 5th, 2012, 02:42 AM
Your definetley curious, and dw about not fitting in, because we have heaps of bi/curious teens on VT c:
If you are gay/bi or just straight, embrace it and don't freak out about it :)

gayprideguy12
June 5th, 2012, 08:35 AM
curious and questioning is what i think

jacob360
June 6th, 2012, 07:57 PM
No, not at all. It's just part of puberty. You're probably just curious is all.

StoppingTime
June 6th, 2012, 08:05 PM
If you were my age (17) i dont really consider it the norm for a STRAIGHT guy to enjoy GAY porn but if its a curious phase thats fine. i went through as well about that age. Think about women though. In my opinion you ahould break yourself from stuff like this to grow up straight, if thats what you want ;) It is fairly common and if you really do enjoy it, who am i to tell you not to do it haha. Do what feels right in your heart.

You can't "grow up" straight. You are what you are, and there really is no changing it.

Chase1998
June 11th, 2012, 01:44 AM
No it's normal

Mysterious Skin
June 11th, 2012, 05:27 AM
Hey, I'm gay. Like fully. But occasionally I enjoy straight porn. Don't know why, I just do. So you watching Gay porn does not make you gay.

Incompris
June 11th, 2012, 05:34 AM
No, this doesn't make you gay at all. Most likely, you are just a curious teen, and there isn't anything wrong with that.
Exactly you are just a a curious teen. That does not make you gay

Curtis96
June 11th, 2012, 09:08 AM
You should know if you are gay or not you shouldn't need someone else to decide weather you are gay or not

Mark97
June 11th, 2012, 04:13 PM
depends do u like girls? if u do and ur only attraction to guys is when u watch gay porn then its prob just ur hormones and ur straight

Bobble
June 11th, 2012, 04:16 PM
It probs just curious

WillGind
June 12th, 2012, 07:43 PM
It's likely you are just curious, not gay. It's normal among teenage boys, and actually quite common.

BoyTeen1997
June 16th, 2012, 04:17 PM
Not gay just curious

Josh16
June 16th, 2012, 06:15 PM
Just curiosity really and hormones. During puberty most boys get horny over anything sexual so don't worry about it

chiisaiaoiryu
June 18th, 2012, 04:46 AM
Even straight guys tend to like gay porn, even if it is a bit unusual. I know this from experience. I have a best friend who's straight and sometimes watches gay porn with me. I know he only likes girls, but he told me that he was introduced to gay porn first and had preferred it ever since.

The point here is that you're not gay just because you vastly prefer watching gay porn. Whether or not you're gay or bi is based completely on how you feel. And it's just my opinion here, but I believe that society has put stereotypes on acts that they consider gay. Just because a guy messes with another guy, it doesn't mean they're gay. The same goes for you; just because you like gay porn does not mean you're gay.

My suggestion here is that you shouldn't worry about your sexuality right now. I believe you said you're fourteen; just let your sexuality come naturally to you. Forcing it will only make you feel more confused. Again, I speak about this from experience. So if you love gay porn, go ahead and keep watching it. Don't let it label you as gay because only you have the right to label yourself as either straight, gay, or bi.

VirtualGuy012
June 18th, 2012, 12:41 PM
no, a lot of people do it. Not just you

FullyAlive
June 18th, 2012, 01:06 PM
:arrow2: teen sexuality

sms22
June 18th, 2012, 02:50 PM
I dont think so. Its most likely your hormones and at most you could be bi.

blackpo
June 18th, 2012, 03:09 PM
no not necessarily

ackmedsgirl666
June 18th, 2012, 03:12 PM
curious not gay
if you were gay you wouldnt have any slight bit of attraction to females at all
its normal to be curious at your age

commikid
June 19th, 2012, 12:58 PM
Nahh not of the slightest :D its just up to what ever turns you on man, I have done it on more than one occasion but it doesnt mean that I find other guys attractive lol. And even if you did it wouldnt matter of the slightest because life is toooo short to stress over what is "right" and what is not. Its just a body, all the femail ones are the same princaple and all the male ones are too so just enjoy what is available :D

Pepito
June 19th, 2012, 01:02 PM
It doesn`t make you gay. You are just curious most probably. And I heard that a lot of str8 men like to watch gay porn, even though most of them don`t admit it.

whiteyrhys
July 1st, 2012, 11:43 AM
Not at all - you're simply curious. Most guys going through puberty, early to mid high school like you are curious! Don't worry about it :) Just don't let someone catch you as not everyone views it like that...

Incompris
July 3rd, 2012, 05:52 AM
Nope just mean your curious.

WillGind
July 3rd, 2012, 06:11 AM
You are gay if you declare yourself gay, you declare yourself gay if you are interested in a relationship with another man. Watching gay porn doesn't necessarily mean you are gay, although it can. If you are interested in pursuing a relationship with a man you are probably gay. If you just like watching gay porn you might be curious. I have heard of many straight guys that watch gay porn during puberty, it seems to be a normal thing.

gig-guy
July 5th, 2012, 08:50 AM
no gay, but curious