In a pickle

[Dylan389]

So one of my bestfriends told me they like me. Which i'm all good with that, cause I like them as well. Here's how i'm in the pickle. She has had sex with at lease 5 guys. So I don't know how to go with that. Like would it be weird if I asked her if she has been tested or what? Cause of all means, I like this girl.:what:

[Desuetude]

Just because you like each other it doesn't mean you have to go straight to sex. I know you're best friends at the moment but go on a few dates just the two of you, see how things turn out. Then maybe when you're more comfortable being together in a relationship and being intimate you can ask her about it then. I mean it's something you'd want to know if you were that far along in a relationship so she shouldn't be annoyed that you'd ask.
Go on a few dates, don't try and plan too far ahead just take things in your stride and as they come.

[Dylan389]

I know, i was just thinking people are just going to think I'm only dating her for sex and which I'm not.

[Stryker125]

If you think she should get tested, then tell her. And to be safe, make sure you wear a condom every time you have sex. And for good measure, she might be able to start birth control.

[Dylan389]

Thanks guys. :)

[spw184]

If you end up having sex and you're not sure if she has STD's or not just use a condom. Or don't have sex. Or go and get tested.

[Drew5]

Just ask her in a respectful way. No big deal, only if u make it one

[Mortal Coil]

Just ask her in a respectful way. No big deal, only if u make it one

Yeah, be chill about it. But start slow, yeah?