Do girls feel the same way?

[rubberbabybuggybumpers]

I'm sorry if I seem unsensative but here goes

Would girls feel the same way as me in that I am desperate for sex. Oral or anal or whatever, I'll take what I'm given and I just mean casually really. I just wondered if girls generally would feel the same way or would be prepared do it with me. Maybe even for a bit of escapism to enjoy something in these difficult times with coursework and what not.

[Serenity]

This isn't a guys/girls thing, it's just people in general. Everyone has some amount of lust, and some people's sex drives are higher than others.

[rubberbabybuggybumpers]

why is it that girls are always much more reserved about it though. They never seem interested.

[Serenity]

Well I know it has been said that females are better at handling their emotions and desires than males, and that we're less driven by lust than males.

[Enkoi]

Everyone is very different when it comes to things like that. It depends what kind of relationships they are looking for, and what they want in it.
If you're desperate, thats pretty much normal. I know girls can be that way too, you just have to be prepared for it. I feel that for the most part (mostly speaking from me) girls want to be prepared because you dont want to start spreading diseases or such etc...

I hope you see my point because I'm having trouble getting it across.

[edit]

Yeah i see what you're saying. Girls are bigger into connecting emotionally to guys than physically. But yeah every ones different.

[rubberbabybuggybumpers]

I suppose what I am basically asking is how am I going to get casual sex. Any ideas?

[MoveAlong]

I suppose what I am basically asking is how am I going to get casual sex. Any ideas?

Really? Sorry, you can't ask that stuff here! We can't give you any tips on sex. Plus, I don't really even know what "casual sex" is, but I'm pretty sure that's off limits too! :P
What are you asking really?? You're not making yourself very clear.

[RowanVer.3.0]

Well, there has been scientists that hypothesize that the reason that males are more willing for any form of sex is related to evolution. Since men just do the deed and walk, feeling relieved, women get pregnant and carry your child for 9 months(in nature). So, over time, it's kind of engraved in the mind of most women to pick more carefully for a mate, since it's a long process afterwards.

Basically, men don't get pregnant, just sex then walk freely... Although condoms and birth-control change that, it's still kind of subconsciously present since it has just been recent years we've had condoms. Not to mention there's still that chance that they can get pregnant, it's a bigger choice.

Sex is associated with pregnancy, pregnancy is associated with 9 hard months of carriage and 9 hard months of carriage are associated with "I better make it a good'un!"

Men were always free to be whores, whilst women have had to make it a big decision.


As for casual sex, I think we'd all like to know... Today you need to be in a relationship to have sex... Which is a much greater thing, however, it'd be nice to be able to get casual sex every once in a while.

You could always find an easy lady, but usually people don't want to touch them :(

[MoveAlong]

Yeah, I agree with you Rowan. I knew all of that, but I'm glad someone finally said it :P

[Antares]

Well everyone has their "horny" times. and i think that girls dont have as many RAGING hormones as we do. and i think that it is just in our nature. so girls get really horny too and i think it just depends on the person. Dontcha ever watch tv? there are girls that will do anyone becuase they want publicity and their kinda horny!

[Enkoi]

Girls have "horny periods" no pun intended.

But we always get higher sex drives during ovulation I believe. Other than that we don't seem to get in the mood unless there's a reason to. But still, I think guys can be the same way in a way.

[emowhotxts]

well i feel the same way too i just want to get the frst time dona and over with i want whatever i get even if its with a grl and im straight

[Sapphire]

But we always get higher sex drives during ovulation I believe. Other than that we don't seem to get in the mood unless there's a reason to.
Not necessarily :P

[cry4eva]

yes, well at least i do. i feel like i will die without it! I really wanna have it but being on 13 it aint likely. Like if sum guy that was near my age came up to me and said lets have sex i would be like, let me get to know u more then in like 15 min we'd b in bed.

[cry4eva]

why is it that girls are always much more reserved about it though. They never seem interested.

BELIEVE ME I AM!!!

[Aηdy]

why is it that girls are always much more reserved about it though. They never seem interested.
I know a girl who has a sex-drive as big as mine, and thats fucking huge xD

But yeah everyone is different and its just your hormones sending you over the top wanting sex!

[TheDude]

I blame it on hormones, as usual, lol.
Do you masturbate? Because if you don't and you are a virgin then that makes sense to me.
But if you do masturbate and/or are not a virgin, then I say, it still makes sense. :lol:

[Lifesreject]

hey well girls do get horny. It depends who you are some people are more easily. I get horny quite easily. it just varies from girl to girl like it does from guy to guy. Girls get it some times i get the urge and just want to jump into bed with the nearest guy sometimes i just dont even want to think about it.

[Sapphire]

I go through phases when I am so horny I can't think about anything else. I also go through phases when I don't think about it at all because I am so disinterested.
It all swings and roundabouts baby! lol