What does this all mean?

[Bucky Badger]

For some background, I like this girl named Sarah. I am 19 now, and I just finished my first year of college. Sarah and I went to HS together and we are both back at home for the summer. On and off throughout HS, I had a crush on Sarah, but I hardly talked to her, so I never said anything before I went to school. However, we are both part of a large group of friends that hang out nearly every evening, and we have began to talk a lot more.
Since I felt I should tell someone about my interest in Sarah, I told one of her best friends, Kim. Kim is also a good friend of mine (yes, that was a stupid idea) and I thought it was safe to tell her. I just wanted to gauge interest and see if they could tell me if it was a good idea to pursue Sarah or not. Long story short, it wasn't. Kim told me, indirectly, that it wasn't a good idea because she was in the "talking" stage with another guy. I decided to just kinda give up and swallow my feelings because it wasn't going to happen. Also, hoping Kim wouldn't mention anything to Sarah, I thought it was fine to forget it all . . . Well, Kim told Sarah that I liked her, as you can probably imagine.

I spoke with Kim today and she told me that she had informed Sarah of my interests. She said Sarah was very cool about and she wants me to come and tell her in person. Kim says Sarah wants to tell me her feelings. I am not sure why she wants to give me the rejection feelings that I am already aware of. Is that what this is? I feel that I already know whats going to happen, and to save me the face-to-face rejection I am going to face, I would rather not go talk to her about that. Also, the past few days, she has been trying to plan a week long road trip with Kim and I. She seems quite excited about that, but it is a group event, so whatever.

Thanks for the help!!

[Harley Quinn]

Well first off, you don't actually know you're getting rejected. It could be the 'Hey, I like you too, I just didn't know when to tell you' talk. Whenever you like someone, it's always best to tell a person face to face you like them, in my opinion it's disrespectful if you don't. Just go talk to her, see what she has to say and if it's good, get in there, if it's bad, well there's other fish in the sea - keep fishing and you'll find a keeper eventually.

[Guillermo]

I'm not exactly sure what you're wanting help/advice on? Because like the other poster said she hasn't rejected you yet and you don't even know if she will for sure. I think that you should talk to her especially since the other friend has already told her of your feelings for her. Most girls like confidence, so just show her that you can go up to her and tell your feelings for her. And even if she does reject you, you guys can still be friends and there will be plenty of other options in the future. But you really should give it a shot and see where it goes.

[Curtis96]

You don't know the future so anything could happen, you need to talk to her to find out if she likes you or not aswell and it doesn't matter if it is a group trip or not, you both are still going to be there

[Donkey]

It seems strange to me that she'd ask to talk to you, and just tell you that she didn't like you back. I'm sure no one would want that awkwardness. Go and talk to her, she says no or you get what you want - surely its worth it.

[Lovemeorleaveme]

I agree with every other poster for all you know it she might like you and the other guy could have just been a cover story

[aaayyoo_avery]

Well first off, you don't actually know you're getting rejected. It could be the 'Hey, I like you too, I just didn't know when to tell you' talk. Whenever you like someone, it's always best to tell a person face to face you like them, in my opinion it's disrespectful if you don't. Just go talk to her, see what she has to say and if it's good, get in there, if it's bad, well there's other fish in the sea - keep fishing and you'll find a keeper eventually.


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