Fallin' for Best friend...Oh boy..Help!

[mrwhite1994]

So perhaps one of my best friends ever in my life, is starting to become my love interest. And all know how that turns out. (Sorta)

We've been friends for about a year now (since sophomore year), but we've become so close in the past year. She is honestly one of the most elegant, intelligent, and kind people I have ever met in my entire life. And the fact that she's absolutely beautiful is just an added bonus. Now whenever anyone says her name, my heart jumps. I adore her so much, and she adores me too.

Now, I'm not 100% sure that she loves me romantically or that I am "boyfriend material". I used to think that she was crushing on me, but now I'm less than 100% sure, but she still "likes me". I'm virtually the only guy friend she actually talks to, so I don't know if I'm in the infamous "friendzone" or if she's keeping me close to her as possible relationship material.

Also, if we do get together, I'm also really nervous too. This might be my first ever relationship EVER in the history of my life, so I'm a little anxious of what would be to come.

So any advice would be appreciated or any opinions whatsoever. Should I tell her I like her or not. Should I go for it or should I just back off. Thanks everyone!

[RCT109]

well hey listen if you like her tell her
I mean I told the girl I liked and I was friends with her for most of this year
I mean the wrost thing that can happen is that she says no

[CharmOfTheSOuth]

You'll never know untill you try.. This happens all te time

[mrwhite1994]

Hate to drag it out more, but how do I get around to telling her? As in how do I break it to her?

[RCT109]

Well just start talking to her
and let it come up on its own

I mean I sent her a message over FB and asked her out and it took me one 45 minutes to do it and she said no but its fine

so just let it happen

[Clawhammer]

You don't even have to tell her, just be around her, talk to her, flirt a bit. Let things happen.

[Taylor18]

regretting what you do is far more better than regretting what you don't

[SLABBS]

i dated my bestfriend one time. we went out for 6 months. after we broke up we didnt really talk fro a couple months. but now were best friends again. :P so dont worrie. if things dont work out you guys can still end up best friends again in the end.

[sms22]

Thats actually what happen with me and my girlfriend. Weve been friends since elementary and once we got to 8th grade i asked her out.

[Kernel]

A couple of years ago i fell for my best friend lik we were friends for ages and i asked her out. She said no but it was alright, we stayed best friends. Then she moved away and that was kinda the end of that but thats most likely not goin 2 happen.

Last year i became friends with a girl in my science class. We grow reali close and became best friends and i fell for her, lik completely. I adore her. When i asked her out she said yes and we're still goin out. I might b soppy but she's the best thing that ever happened 2 me, i love her.

So go 4 it. U dont no if u dont try. If she says no its fine, but just think: what if she says yes?! Go 4 it bro! I'm glad I did, you could b 2 :) hope i helped

[Aves]

No harm in telling her. You can let hints or be direct. Personally, I prefer being direct; that way there's no misunderstandings, which have cost me relationships in the past.