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t0mb0ii13
July 18th, 2007, 03:47 AM
this one girl in school is a transexual, meaning she has both sexual organs.she always changes in a corner so no1 will see her:( i want to help her but i dont no how. one time i heard her crying in a stall and i really feel bad cuz ppl make fun of her:(

Rawrbaby
July 18th, 2007, 06:16 AM
if i may say this realky quick a transexual is somone who changes their body to match the way thay want it when ya say she has both sexual organs that means she is a hermaphodite and im not for sure if she is a transboy or transgirl but anyways it is nice that ya feel sorry for her and try to help her out and be a friend to her help her out here and thar hope this helps

Sapphire
July 18th, 2007, 06:30 AM
Be friendly with her and let her know that you are trustworthy and will be there for her if she wants.
It must be really hard for her to have to live like this and if you can be an honest, good friend for her then that will be fantastic.

forumer
July 18th, 2007, 11:05 AM
it really sad to hear about this, it happen to one out of a million i think. i saw a report on this type of case. if i am not wrong, i read from some books that every babies start out as gal and if it a boy, a penis will grow from the vagina but if it a gal vagina remain.

RowanVer.3.0
July 18th, 2007, 12:04 PM
Well, soon she will be 'normal'. As soon as a hermaphrodite starts to takes the shape of male or female, usually one of their sexual-organs are removed so that they can live a normal life.

How old are you? It should be really soon that she starts to hit puberty and takes on a male or female form.

Until then, you can do your best to console her, but you will probably never understand the pain of being a hermaphrodite... Assuming you aren't.

MoveAlong
July 18th, 2007, 02:05 PM
this one girl in school is a transexual, meaning she has both sexual organs.
Actually, a transsexual is a person who wants to change their sex from boy to girl or vise versa. She is a hermaphrodite.
I agree with Carol (~Tortured Beauty~) :D

t0mb0ii13
July 18th, 2007, 10:23 PM
Well, soon she will be 'normal'. As soon as a hermaphrodite starts to takes the shape of male or female, usually one of their sexual-organs are removed so that they can live a normal life.

How old are you? It should be really soon that she starts to hit puberty and takes on a male or female form.

Until then, you can do your best to console her, but you will probably never understand the pain of being a hermaphrodite... Assuming you aren't.

errr she has breast and a penis....shes made fun of alot:(

DouggyO.o
July 18th, 2007, 10:28 PM
こんにちは私の名前は何でもちょうど知らせれば私に必要とすれば、ダグである。 楽しい時を過しなさい!

translation:Hello my name is doug, if you ever need anything just let me know. Have fun!

haha but seriously, I like anime and stuff like that as well. :-)

Enkoi
July 18th, 2007, 10:37 PM
こんにちは私の名前は何でもちょうど知らせれば私に必要とすれば、ダグである。 楽しい時を過しなさい!

translation:Hello my name is doug, if you ever need anything just let me know. Have fun!

haha but seriously, I like anime and stuff like that as well. :-)


:confused: where did that come from? :confused:

t0mb0ii13
July 18th, 2007, 10:42 PM
こんにちは私の名前は何でもちょうど知らせれば私に必要とすれば、ダグである。 楽しい時を過しなさい!

translation:Hello my name is doug, if you ever need anything just let me know. Have fun!

haha but seriously, I like anime and stuff like that as well. :-)


i think u wanted to put that in intros

Glasgow
July 18th, 2007, 11:03 PM
Lol doug that was really really random :P

And yeah, it appears that this girl, well i wouldnt call her a girl really. But anywho, this girl is a hermaphrodite and Rowan gave you all the info you needed. And actually taught me something aswell, i dont know if it is correct because i heard that they cannot reproduce because they dont have ovaries nor testicles

Antares
July 18th, 2007, 11:31 PM
this one girl in school is a transexual, meaning she has both sexual organs.she always changes in a corner so no1 will see her:( i want to help her but i dont no how. one time i heard her crying in a stall and i really feel bad cuz ppl make fun of her:(

well i think thats shes a hemaphradite if she has both organs. because they usually remove the old organ if shes a trannie lol!
and i think that you should try to be her friend. start talkin to her, helpin her if somethin happens like if she drops her books. and just basically be there for her because deep down all she wants is a friend!:(

forumer
July 19th, 2007, 03:54 AM
yes, they cannot reproduce. and they can only remove penis .

Sapphire
July 19th, 2007, 04:07 AM
Typically a hermaphrodite will live to a certain point as a male/female as chosen by their parents. If they wish to deviate from that later on then they can have an operation to remove the set of organs they wish to be free from.
The life of a hermaphrodite is a hard one as they aren't even 100% sure whether they are male or female. They know what their parents have told them and dressed them as. They also know that they are different. It's a horrible and angst ridden life.
So, if you can befriend her and have a laugh with her it really would mean a lot to her.

byee
July 19th, 2007, 09:48 AM
==both sex organs. How do you know this? Somehow I find it extraordinarily difficult to believe this is public knowledge.

If she is in fact a hermaphrodite, maybe it would be best to simply ignore this and treat her like a regular person. No, treat her nicer.

RowanVer.3.0
July 19th, 2007, 10:00 AM
errr she has breast and a penis....shes made fun of alot:(
Well, if that's the case, then she'll probably have an operation to remove her penis soon. She'll pretty much be a normal girl, with a scar on her pubic area, that is.

Although, I bet she'll have trouble with dates around where you live, since it's already well known that she has/had a penis. Just be friends with her, that's the best advice you can get. Many people will never understand what she's going through.

Just be friends with her, and try not to judge her.

DouggyO.o
July 19th, 2007, 10:21 AM
OMG, i am so sorry. i had two tabs open and i replyed in the wrong thread.

Enkoi
July 19th, 2007, 10:43 AM
OMG, i am so sorry. i had two tabs open and i replyed in the wrong thread.

LOl, figured as much, you wouldnt do something so silly. Forgiven!!

Anyways I agree with everyone here. The most you can do is befriend her and make her feel like there are people out there who are willing to help her get through this and ultimatly make some important desicions in her life.

greger92
July 29th, 2007, 02:08 AM
hermaphrodite and that would be so terrible to be like that but all you can do is comfort her and let her no its ok every1 has flaws

Greane
July 31st, 2007, 03:07 AM
I don't know if it's just me, but I would lose it and just totally beat the crap outta anyone who made fun of someone with, I don't know how to say this, a disposition(sorry if that sounds terrible). By saying that, I'm including being gay and well, other things you can think of. But maybe that's cause I'm a violent person, eh?

Crazysam
July 31st, 2007, 03:46 AM
this must be terrible for her it might be the case that she may just want to be left allone?

Greane
July 31st, 2007, 04:10 AM
I'm sorry, I may have misread that, but why would you want to leave her alone if (If I read this correctly) she only has a small amount (could even be none) of friends and you wouldn't try to befriend her?

mobile
July 31st, 2007, 06:32 PM
Sorry to ask this....but how do you actually know she has a breast and a penis, have you actually seen them? It could just be a nasty rumour the kids in your year have made up about her.

Im not saying you are lieng, Im just pointing out that kids in school can be really nasty sometimes and make up rumours like this against one another.
I hope i havent annoyed you by saying this, its just a thought.

johhny_k
August 24th, 2007, 10:54 PM
as much as you may want to help theres just nothing you can do there

Maverick
August 24th, 2007, 11:00 PM
Don't bump old threads please and thank you.