What is wrong with me?

[joescott15]

Okay so im 17 in 2 days and i haven't got laid yet and its really getting to me! But the thing is i have barley any confidence so i cant get laid! :S :S

[Desuetude]

Not everything is about sex, you don't need to prove anything by having it. Don't worry just enjoy being 17 and able to drive (lol). Work on your confidence though, try talking and starting up conversations with people you're not already friends with. Remind yourself of the positive things and don't think negative about yourself because putting yourself down will do nothing for confidence. It's not my place to say but if you're in a good relationship for a while before you decide to have sex and you're able to trust her then things should be easier confidence-wise. Sex isn't everything.

[joescott15]

yeah i know what you mean and thanks for the reply and advice. But everything i seem to watch and look at always seems like it involves somethings to do with sex or sexual things :S

[BLU3 SK1TTL3Z]

I hear that you should wait until you find the right person. Don't just have sex with anyone that doesn't mean anything to you. You should wait because any choice you make in life could and will effect you in the future. So don't just be with some random person! Be with the person you love!!!!

[Azunite]

I hate it how there is this "getting laid" pressure in Europe.

Stay cool man, you'll get it done once the time is right, no need to rush.

[Noirtier]

That doesn't mean there is anything wrong with you. There is a similar pressure in the States, but its better to save it for someone you love than waste it and regret it.

[Erasmus]

Absolutely nothing is wrong with you!

[StoppingTime]

As a teen this may be hard to grip, but the rest of your life won't be about sex.
There are other things more important, and don't feel like you aren't really a man or you need to prove yourself by having sex. Truly, you don't.
Just wait and find the right person. It'll feel much better that way. The whole thing isn't a race, and you anybody who thinks it is, should get their priorities checked. :P

Like Nikki said though, work on confidence. (Speaking from experience), I know hard this is. Just work on small talk, and getting in a relationship after. Take things very slowly, there's no race. I think you should wait until you really trust someone before doing anything with them. It's not my place to tell you what to do with your life, but that's my suggestion.