Long Distance Relationships

[LETSGOJETS]

Ok, so a few weeks ago I posted something about the relationships and stuff like that I thank all who replied because I got the courage to ask her out... and she said YES! No something bad to happen. Since the school year is over and everything else. She told me via text that she was moving to Texas. 1300 miles away. So what should I do? Should I stay in a relationship with her or should I break up with her? Please Help

[Desuetude]

You do whatever you believe is right. long distance relationships can work but you just need a little more patience and trust, lots of communication. I would talk to her about it, ask her what she thinks is best and maybe you can get an answer that way?

[DejaVu]

Long distances relationship CAN work! I'm currently in one with my gf Hols (username PurpleRain) and I love her more than I've loved anyone <3 and I think she does too so hey, I don't see why it can't work :)

[gayprideguy12]

from what i experanced long distance can only work by if you and your partner is really commited otherwise it wont work at all.

[Harley Quinn]

Ok, so a few weeks ago I posted something about the relationships and stuff like that I thank all who replied because I got the courage to ask her out... and she said YES! No something bad to happen. Since the school year is over and everything else. She told me via text that she was moving to Texas. 1300 miles away. So what should I do? Should I stay in a relationship with her or should I break up with her? Please Help

You have to do what you think is personally best for you. Most LDR's (long distance relationships) fail because one person can't keep the level of commitment needed, and so it ends up falling flat on its face. If you think that you have all the things needed to make a LDR work, sure go ahead, but at the end of the day you have to personally see a future in it or there's really no point in dating.

I suggest talking to her about it, see what she has to say and from what she says you'll know whether it's worth staying in a relationship with her. 1300 miles is a huge distance and if you have no way of getting there, there is really no point, it won't work if you never see each other. Depending on your age and whether you can drive or not, is also a factor that needs to be taken into consideration. You can't have a relationship just talking, you need physical contact as well and if you can't get that, I don't think it'll work out for you both. But, like I said, it has to be what feels right for you.

[runnerz]

The main problem with LDR's is you won't be able to see her on a regular basis. Sure you can do video chatting, but there will still be a missing element to it. You're talking and staying in touch, but there's always a sense that you're not actually with them or a part of their life as much as before. 1) Determine your level of commitment and 2) Think how soon (if at all) the LDR can just become an "R" again.

How does she feel about it?

[abdheuuuchjc]

I'm in one, its hell

[bigfoot]

I had a long distance relationship (60 miles haha) and it ended bad. Maybe that just made me bitter but I say no go. It's all up to you though

[LETSGOJETS]

Thanks all for you help but I did love her and I thought what was right so I broke up with her I was sad for a few days but I got over it.

[Desuetude]

It's good you were able to move on so quickly, well done for making your own decision and doing what you thought was right.

[Black.Veil.Brides]

follow yhur heart!! even if it doesnt work out... HELL, at least it was worth the try!!

[Boyfreshx]

As he said,long distance required patience,and trust. People dont realize that,It takes time to build up trust with someone you can't physically touch.I do believe they can work however I have never really had one.