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Cajunjun
June 3rd, 2012, 01:33 PM
Hi guys...

I'm 18. I lost touch with all my high school school mates because there are treating me pretty badly. Not really too bad but, they only come to me when they need something. And nobody really ask me out. They always tell me that I'm crazy and fun to hang out with, but they always make plans without me. So I guess the problem doesn't lies in me. So I kinda cut all contacts with all of them because I don't see a point anymore. I planned many birthday surprises for every single one in my clique, and when it comes to my birthday, some of them don't even wish me on the correct day. *its pretty sad. I don't have much people to hang out with. So I spend most of my time online.*

Recently, I made a really good guy friend that lived a few blocks away from me. I hardly have any friends that live near my area. So I'm really glad! We hang out pretty often and it's really fun, but the problem is I'm actually going into the army soon, because every guy in my country have to serve the country. So it's pretty sad and time consuming. I will only be home on the weekends for the next 2 years. *now I think that my friend will probably forget about me and find another friend after I get into the army..... And at the end of the day.... I'm all alone again. It's hard for me to find a really good friend and plus the fact he lived so close to me. We could hang out anytime. Now I guess thing r going to be different after I start my army.... I'm really affected about it. *

What should I do :(

Stronger
June 6th, 2012, 04:40 PM
What country are you from? (Just wondering) But anyway, when weekends roll around, can you hang with him then? Even if you can't just let him know that you will me in the army and I'm sure he will be understanding. Until you have to serve, just spend a lot of time with him, and once you're in the army if you can't hang with him, then atleast try and message him on Facebook, E-mail whatever and just tell him how your doing and what not. Also does the army there restict friendship? maybe you will meet some people there, a lot of people do that, so I wouldn't say you will be totally alone.