Nobody said it was easy... Please help

[Gandalf]

My girlfried was supposed to meet me. The usual time and usual place.
Yet she stood me up! literally did wait for almost an hour.

Anyway I know she's having a hard time right now but she hasn't even tried to contact me to apologise.
I was going to giver her another chance because I do care about her so much :'(
Now I'm not so sure. I can't even break up with her because she's ignoring me. She doesn't have a phone but she could have used Facebook or borrowed her parents phone to text to ask me to call back. She knows I would do that for her.

Am I being unfair? I feel bad thinking about breaking up with her. But I can't hang around if she is being unreasonable.


Can anybody give me just a little help please.

[joeharris1223]

if she isnt willing to put forth the effort that you are than she may not be worth the grief and agoney.

[destaney]

i hate girls like that i had a girl like that and wouldn't talk to me at all so i went to her house and broke things off with her face to face

[Gandalf]

I have since spoken to her. Only since I managed to get a message to her through a family member.
Her reason for not showing was perfectly fine but she didn't apolgise.
She doesn't realise it's courtesy. Yes I was bought up old fashioned.
She is lucky I have kind nature.
I was actually worried that I had done something wrong.

Thanks.

[Aves]

If this was the first time she stood you up, maybe you shouldn't be so harsh as to want to break up with her. I'd be disappointed, but I wouldn't break up with someone for standing me up one time. If it becomes a habit to her though, you might want to start questioning her.

[pdidyking]

Look, i can tell you haven't known each other for a while. Work it out man. Think logically. The next girl you meet, make sure you know her well. You gotta be friends, then best friends.

[Taylor18]

always talk. it's the best way to know what's on her mind