A little advice please...

[braydon123]

So, there is a girl I like that has been in 4 of my 8 classes this year, she is a really nice girl as well as beautiful. She has been in my classes in previous years but I just haven't had the courage to ask her out, I am good friends with one of her friends but we have never had an extensive conversation together. I just never know the right time to talk to her. Her locker is only 4 over from mine but whenever she is there she is with friends. I sit one desk over in one of my classes and I am getting worried I won't be able to ask her out in time before the summer break. So, I was just wondering if anyone has some advice on how I should approach her and the situation in general.

Thanks

[JayTea]

Easiest subject to talk about, school! Go up to her, say hello, and start talking about a class.

[Mortal Coil]

Yup, I agree with JT. Talk about school. However, this can turn into a dead end, so try to branch out quickly :)

[pdidyking]

Give it more time. You have to have some extensive conversations. She won't go out with somone she doesn't know. Relate to her and be interested in her stories etc. Give it time. Great relationships come from great time.

[braydon123]

Thanks for the advice guys, I feel that it has started to work for me already.

[kenoloor]

If you haven't talked to her, how do you expect to comfortably go on a date with her?

[Light Warrior 7]

Easiest subject to talk about, school! Go up to her, say hello, and start talking about a class.

Agreed ^_^

[braydon123]

If you haven't talked to her, how do you expect to comfortably go on a date with her?

I had talked to her at that point but not a real extensive conversation, I have started to talk to her and she even begins conversations with me as well, so hopefully things go well enough by time the summer break comes for me to ask her out.

Do you guys think it is too early to let her know how I feel?

[JayTea]

Do you guys think it is too early to let her know how I feel?

I would say yes, it is a little too early. Get to know her first, talk to her. See if she is available and is ready for someone, then let her know you feel. Best advice I can give you, do not rush it, if it is meant to be, it will be meant to be :)

[Gordo]

I would say yes, it is a little too early. Get to know her first, talk to her. See if she is available and is ready for someone, then let her know you feel. Best advice I can give you, do not rush it, if it is meant to be, it will be meant to be :)

Yup too early.

Don't ask about school, that's abt to end. This is what I've done and have done and it's never awk. So for example:

Me: Whatya doin this summer? Ya gonna be around?
her: idk, but yeah I'll be around some of it.
Me: well, idk, maybe we get together over the summer? No big deal, bring a friend or not, maybe get our friends together just to hang out. Or just hang out. idk, maybe the pool, mini golf, movie, mall, idk, something like that. I've been wanting to do something like this for a little while now, but never had the chance. He're my cell, text me with "hey" so I'll have your 411 and we'll see what's up. An' if ya dont wanna, that's cool too. I'm just throwin' it out there. C-YA!


See, now ya put it out there. No pressure on her at all. She doesn't havta think you're all datey creepy, gives ya chance to know her first.

Worst case, ya tried.
Next worse case Ya tried and ya hung out once with her and her friends and maybe some of your friends.
Next is ya did it a few times and eventually she suggested just you to.

the beauty is, you aren't all dejected and you avoided awkwardness for everybody.

Man i'm on a roll today. lol @ myself!

[braydon123]

It's really annoying seeing another guy following her around but he appears to be more of a best friend type but you never know. I will hopefully build up enough of a relationship with her to ask her out before school finishes.

[Lovemeorleaveme]

get to know her girls like being with someone they can talk to, ask her if she wants to hang out at lunch somtime with you, become friends after your friends you could ask her out.

[braydon123]

get to know her girls like being with someone they can talk to, ask her if she wants to hang out at lunch somtime with you, become friends after your friends you could ask her out.

The part I am struggling with is the getting to know her part, just can't figure a way to start a conversation about that stuff.

[kenoloor]

The part I am struggling with is the getting to know her part, just can't figure a way to start a conversation about that stuff.

Then good luck dating her.

[braydon123]

Thanks for the advice so far it is helping me a lot, I have gotten to know quite a bit about her the past 2 days.