Should i risk it?

[Josh_]

I dont know if im gay, bi, curious yet but i have been getting weird feelings for my best m8, its not really sex things i dont think stuff like wanting to hug him just to be close with him, when hes not looking i stare at him and take in every detail of his face (it sounds so pervy).If we are sitting together watchin tv or on pc etc we sit close and our arms or legs are touching and it feels so nice and safe and comfortable, i tried hugging him a few times just for an excuse to touch him and if he hugs back i kinda get very nervous i dont know if hes feeling like that as well if he didnt want to be close to me hed move away from me right? should i say something to him about these weird feelings? is it gay feelings do you think?:confused:

[Dimitri]

Okay bud, there could be a few different things. It may be a bromance, you two are best friends, I have a friend that I treat the same way. We are so much best friends, almost brothers in a way.

As for if he/you are gay/bi/curious...the gay/bi part..if you could see yourself loving a guy (gay) or a guy and a girl(bi) for the rest of your life and you could have a committed relationship then well...gay/bi you are.

If you ever need to talk to me about it then by all means stop in and drop me a line.

[Laquifa]

Okay bud, there could be a few different things. It may be a bromance, you two are best friends, I have a friend that I treat the same way. We are so much best friends, almost brothers in a way.

As for if he/you are gay/bi/curious...the gay/bi part..if you could see yourself loving a guy (gay) or a guy and a girl(bi) for the rest of your life and you could have a committed relationship then well...gay/bi you are.

If you ever need to talk to me about it then by all means stop in and drop me a line.

This answers this post PERFECTLY

[Josh_]

Thanks for the replies :)
I dont really get what the bromance thing means is it like you both are in love with each other? i think i do love him sometimes i think hes perfect,hmm its weird i ive started feeling like this lately ive known him since i was 6 and now this starts:confused:

[Green Arrow]

If you feel it's right then experiment, try things out. Just make sure that if you're making your friend uncomfortable then stop. But otherwise have fun! :)

[Dimitri]

Thanks for the replies :)
I dont really get what the bromance thing means is it like you both are in love with each other? i think i do love him sometimes i think hes perfect,hmm its weird i ive started feeling like this lately ive known him since i was 6 and now this starts:confused:

Bromance is more of an American thing I guess. It is when two straight guys who really care for one another and are somewhat of a couple but are not really a couple. They do a lot of things together. Best friends til the very end and nothing would come between them.

[destaney]

you should tell him how you feel and don't be afraid to be blunt about it either. he will respect you a lot more for you doing such a brave thing

[joeharris1223]

go for it bro!

[Josh_]

I want to just tell him and be honest, hopefully if he isnt interested hed be flattered maybe and still be my best m8 because i dont want to loose him.
But its a worry that hed freak out and if he felt the same i think i might freak out because what then lol, d not be expecting it even though i think thats what i want.