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Dimentio
June 2nd, 2012, 11:21 AM
Well i told the guy i love them and trhey are everything to me, And he is the only person i have ever loved and ever will love, And he has shown signs for liking me but it came to the day, I told him all this, And apparently he only saw me as a friend after everything, But since then i been crying all the time, So depressed, Harldy eating, Just up in my room, Alone, Not talking, Not smiling, Wanting nothing, He was everything now he is gone, So how is a way to deal with heart break? I can't go on like this.

Breakeven
June 2nd, 2012, 11:31 AM
1- u r strong
2- u will find someone better , it wasnt meant to be hun
3- ur not alone , im here if u need someone to talk too
4- i know it hurts but try to listen to music , go out , try to do something to keep ur mind of things
5-write the way u feel , u might come up with some cool stuff
6- think what happen maybe its for the best , u dont know who u might met in the future
7- :hug:

Harley Quinn
June 2nd, 2012, 11:35 AM
Distraction is key. If you distract your mind from all attention on that person, you'll get through it. The more you think about them, the more you'll keep mentally harming yourself. Heartbreak happens, get up, brush the dirt of your shoulders and continue walking. Life isn't over, you're alive, things get better. Do the things that make you happy, fuck just go out into an open space and scream your goddamn lungs out. Rant. Do anything that enables you to get out everything you're thinking and once your mind is free you'll get over it. Eat some cake, cake is great.

Dimentio
June 2nd, 2012, 11:40 AM
Thanks guys, This is just so hard for me as this is m first heart break, I been in love with him for four years and was saving everything even my first kiss for him and like i said, He is the only one i have loved, I do not know how to deal with heart breaks though i will give this stuff a go, Thank you again.
To Justin and anyone else who will say that, I don't want anyone else, He was the one but now i want nothing to do with him, I can't get anyone to understand how bad this is for me :'(

Stryker125
June 2nd, 2012, 12:26 PM
Plenty of fish in the sea. You'll find another.

Sordid Saint
June 3rd, 2012, 12:39 AM
keep yourself busy, i wouldn't recommend staying in your room all day. That will give you more time to think about it and it'll hurt worse. i hope you feel better, you can talk to me if you need to

joeharris1223
June 3rd, 2012, 06:07 AM
thats a very tough question.... it just depend on how strong you are. ive had to deal with heartbreak alot so i know how you feel so stay strong