How to find a boyfriend?

[schilgen96]

This year i became sure that im gay and now i want to find a boyfriend like crazy. I like a lot of guys in my school but i dont know the most of them and i dont think that its safe to risk telling them that im gay and i like them...Can i find out if someone's gay too ? Im 16 now and i really dont want to wait any longer.Help me? :(

[Harley Quinn]

When it's meant to happen, it'll happen. Don't force something on yourself just because you want it. Yeah that's not the answer you're looking for, but it's the only one I have that's remotely helpful.

[BeyondOne]

I'd take it a little more slowly.. I would come out at least to your friends, yes this is a big road block, but if you want to try and get a boyfriend, then this is a way to find one. Also, try going to a GSA (Gay Straight Alliance) meeting if your school has one. You can find a lot of people with the same interests there

[Carlyle]

A relationship isn't something to rush, it takes time. You need to get to know someone a bit better before you date. If you don't know they're gay, you either need to forget it or take a risk and ask. I know, it can be rather frightening, but they might react in a way you'd never expect. Good luck.

[ImCoolBeans]

When it's meant to happen, it'll happen. Don't force something on yourself just because you want it. Yeah that's not the answer you're looking for, but it's the only one I have that's remotely helpful.

This is the best and most straight forward answer that you'll get. ^

I would love to have a boyfriend, but you'll find that you'll be unhappy with what you get when you go out searching for it.

[Bath]

You don't find a boyfriend, it just happens. That's how it should be for any relationship, really. I mean, there's no rules, and people purposely go out and look for relationships all the time, but in my opinion that never works out.

Enjoy your life, focus on the things you love, and when the time is right you'll click with somebody and things will unfold.

[Dimitri]

When it's meant to happen, it'll happen. Don't force something on yourself just because you want it. Yeah that's not the answer you're looking for, but it's the only one I have that's remotely helpful.

So true, I will be honest I met my boyfriend Black Friday shopping...

I went out with my friend Mercedes to go shopping and I met Josh there...we met each other and instantly knew it then and there.

I promos you, you will know it when you meet him. Josh and i have been together for 6 months on the 22nd and I can promise you that there is now way that nothing is going to break us up.

Just take some time hun, good things come to those who wait.

[Laquifa]

This is the best and most straight forward answer that you'll get. ^

I would love to have a boyfriend, but you'll find that you'll be unhappy with what you get when you go out searching for it.

Tada .

[Ryhanna]

It's really not something you can force, no matter your orientation. It'll happen when it's meant to happen. Just be patient. :)

[Donkey]

you'll find that you'll be unhappy with what you get when you go out searching for it.

Disagree. while I didn't search for what I got at the moment, I was looking out and putting myself in the right places to find it, and I'm more than happy

[ImCoolBeans]

Disagree. while I didn't search for what I got at the moment, I was looking out and putting myself in the right places to find it, and I'm more than happy

Hm, well maybe it's just been different for you. Because thus far I have not been happy.

[joeharris1223]

you and me both buddy

[schilgen96]

Thanks everyone for the answers but i dont think that things are like that. If you like a girl you just ask her but its different with a boy. Musn't i start to look for a bf or it will happen by itself? I have heard that you will know it if someone's gay too if you look at them(like dimitri describes ) but even after that how will i continue? Currently i have never met anyone at my age that is gay or seems to be or anyway would kiss a boy...I dont see further hopes :(

[Lovemeorleaveme]

Well you could try joining a LGBT club in your community if there if one even if you dont end up meeting anybody you like there, it feels good to be around other people like you.

[Richi]

how beautiful is love. Finally found someone special in your life. be patient

[RoseyCadaver]

I would love to have a boyfriend, but you'll find that you'll be unhappy with what you get when you go out searching for it.
I have to disagree with you too. Even though the boyfriend I have isn't what I call the perfect match for me, I do love him a whole lot and he loves me. I'm a lot happier than I was lol.

That and we're total opposites so it's funny to watch the way people react to us lol.

[Wonder.]

Or you could just not worry about it. You don't NEED someone to love. Enjoy being single, I have friends that have been single during their entire life so far and they're quite happy.