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Mike3
June 2nd, 2012, 07:24 AM
So, I'm 19 and I'm physically and emotionally attracted to girls, but I am also physically attracted to guys. I love watching both gay and straight porn, and when I watch gay porn, it's usually masturbation videos or two guys jerking each other off or giving each other blow jobs. I don't really like anal, but sometimes watch that too. I've also fantasized about some of my male friends - like them jacking off, or jacking off with them. The other day I was curious and decided to finally kiss a guy, and I got nothing out of it - to me this confirmed that I have no emotional attraction to other guys. But I'm still curious about jacking off another guy, preferably a friend. My friends and I are very open about masturbation and porn and regularly talk about it.
All of this has left me confused. What do you guys make of this? Have you fantasized about guys and watched gay porn before too? Have you ever jacked off with a friend? If yes, how did it happen. If no, have you wanted to? How would you go about making something like that happen? Please help. Thanks.
Pipo
June 2nd, 2012, 07:30 AM
Well to be honest with you when I was a lot younger than I am right now I had my first kiss with a boy he was my best friend back then. I really liked the kiss and I don't know if he did. But few years later we started to jack off to porn and I usually watched him jacking off not the porn it was straight porn honestly ever since then I knew I wasn't straight...
I once even jacked him off a bit but then he told me to stop. He had no problems or what so ever to jack off with me. He even asked if I could come for sleepover so we could jack off together. I even hinted him about giving bj but he said it's too gay to him. So yes I'm gay..
about that kissing well the same happened to me with girl I didn't like it at all...also all the hugging was nothing compared to when I hug a boy.
I also sometimes fantasy jacking off with my friend or classmate or even having sex I'd say that's normal? And I guess jacking off with another guy is okay too?
Aaron Y
June 2nd, 2012, 07:32 AM
I do sometimes watch gay porn( solo masturbation or 2 guys jerking each other off ) when i am wanking myself..Sometimes i feel want to jerk off with my friends together so badly( but yet to do so ) because i am just wonder how would my friends jerk themselves off. And i would like to compare myself with them as well. All are just out of curiosity. I think this is just a normal phenomenon which is part of growing up. Anyway, i got no idea how to ask my friends to wank with me. Do u have any suggestion?
Mike3
June 2nd, 2012, 07:49 AM
Well we always see ourselves jacking off, and then when we think of some of our hottest friends, we wonder what they look like when they're doing it. I think that's completely natural.
Richy1995
June 4th, 2012, 01:39 AM
your curious its ok
purpleninjacookie
June 8th, 2012, 02:40 AM
I see this question very often.Its normal to be curious. So many guys...if not....all guys have wondered how another male....your not the only one...so don't worry bro....its normal :)
Chase1998
June 11th, 2012, 01:17 AM
Your curious it ok and if you do start doing things it's very normal
Sabercat
June 11th, 2012, 02:00 AM
Do it
gizzgizzman
July 8th, 2013, 12:19 AM
Its a natural thing, you won't meet one guy who hasn't thought about being in a situation like that,
Ishamael
July 8th, 2013, 12:22 AM
There is nothing wrong with experimenting. Many girls do it as well. honestly just live your life the way you want to, if you want to have fun and try new things go for it. It doesnt make you gay.
Pete_Dude
July 8th, 2013, 09:59 PM
I do sometimes watch gay porn( solo masturbation or 2 guys jerking each other off ) when i am wanking myself..Sometimes i feel want to jerk off with my friends together so badly( but yet to do so ) because i am just wonder how would my friends jerk themselves off. And i would like to compare myself with them as well. All are just out of curiosity. I think this is just a normal phenomenon which is part of growing up. Anyway, i got no idea how to ask my friends to wank with me. Do u have any suggestion?
If you close and good friends why not just bring it up in conversation dude?
Pete_Dude
July 8th, 2013, 10:02 PM
Well I jack off with my best friend and like Mike3 said we tried kissing but it did nothing for us, so we stuck with just jacking each other off.
pennypoo
July 8th, 2013, 10:33 PM
iv jacked off with many of my friends, back when I wasnt out yet. I never watched the porn Ionly watched them, iv even jacked off with my cousins, nothing was wierd about it, we had fun atleast
torcon4421
July 8th, 2013, 10:36 PM
its the same thing for me omg haha except ive nevered kissed a guy and i dont really talk about porn or jacking off with my friends
Thorn181
July 9th, 2013, 10:38 AM
I would like to do it with friends too, but nobody is curious ...
Umdswag15
July 9th, 2013, 03:25 PM
I've experimented before.. but I never have kissed a girl. I kissed my guy friend but I didn't really like it. We do jerk together often but we always watch gay porn and sorta mimic what we see.
SacredB
July 9th, 2013, 04:43 PM
What your doing is normal, if you want to do som thing with him just nonchalantly bring it up in conversation maybe try not including him but say that it might be cool or say that your cousin or friend wanted or did those things with you and then he might want to try.
Catholic Guy
July 9th, 2013, 04:49 PM
Yeah I watch gay porn sometimes, it just sounds like you should just ask one of the really open friends if they are cool to masturbate with you and if they are it just goes on from there
BenjiCleland
July 9th, 2013, 08:41 PM
I have never jacked off with a friend
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