Worried about ejacuations

[Blaze98]

I'm 13 and I started ejaculating recently. Unlike most teens, I don't exactly like ejaculations and I don't get pleasure from them. I only get pleasure from the erections (confusing, I know). I don't want to ejaculate, but I still want to look at pornography sites. I know there is no way to stop an ejaculation, I just need some advice. :(

[MoveAlong]

it's just something you have to live with...you can grow to like it. If you want your prostate or your balls removed, I guess your family could try to spend that kind of money :|
But there's no way to stop anyone from ejaculating. Just enjoy it! Grow to like it, because it's very unlikely that you're gonna find a way to stop it.
All guys (who can) start ejaculating at one point or another, and if you want kids, then you have to be able to ejaculate! :P

[Antares]

keep in mind that if you dont then you will ejaculate during your sleep (which is called wet dreams). why dont you like it? does it hurt?

[Blaze98]

why dont you like it? does it hurt?

No, it doesn't hurt. It's just a mental thing.

[ThatCanadianGuy]

I've heard of this. Some guys just think their ejaculate is "icky" for some reason so they really try to avoid it, if they ever ejaculate at all. But I love it! It's all in your head man! Think about the fun you WON'T be able to have with that "special someone" down the road if you can't stand semen yourself!

[Learn2Bsmart]

Well first off, yes it is confusing that you like erections and not the ejaculations. The climax is supposed to be the most enjoyable part of masturbation, which happens to be the ejaculation, (or orgasm for girls). Now if you don't want to ejaculate, but cant help but feel the urge to look at pornography, then i suggest a life long tip...take a cold shower. It wakes you up, and gets rid of most, if not all, arousal. Its helped for me in the past...sometimes. If that doesn't work, then i guess you have to build on your self control. If you get an erection, refrain from making contact with your penis and think of something else then naked girls, sex, or anything related to the topic. It'll die down if you keep your mind off those things.

And if your worried about actually ejaculating, i don't really know what to say. I've never been worried, unless if i get caught.

[Blaze98]

take a cold shower. It wakes you up, and gets rid of most, if not all, arousal.

Oh, well, that's good, because most of my showers ARE cold!

[byee]

it takes some time to adjust to a more adult sexual response. Do whatever is comfortable for you, take the time to get to know yourself and how you respond. If you don;t like ejaculating, it might be best to avoid excessive (long) masturbation, as that would lead to an ejaculation.

[Glasgow]

I used to think ejaculating was disgusting because i wasnt really aware of what it was before. Now i know that its a normal thing and it relieves you of stress and gives you pleasure. In time you will have the same mind set as all of us and enjoy it

[Antares]

well that sucks that you usually have cold showers. and if it dosent hurt then just try it once. it causes no pain to you. i was kinda scared in the begining but then i got that out of me and now im fine!

[dannyley]

so, how exactly does ejaculation hurt? is it like a sharp pain?

[TeenGuy512]

The climax is supposed to be the most enjoyable part of masturbation, which happens to be the ejaculation, (or orgasm for girls).

Guys have orgasms - that's the pleasure part. Ejaculation is the release of the semen.

[smartman210]

I'm 13 and I started ejaculating recently. Unlike most teens, I don't exactly like ejaculations and I don't get pleasure from them. I only get pleasure from the erections (confusing, I know). I don't want to ejaculate, but I still want to look at pornography sites. I know there is no way to stop an ejaculation, I just need some advice. :(

dude i had the same problem a year ago, i didn't get pleasure from ejaculation but more so the feeling of a boner, well i told my self that most kids ejaculate and so i started to ejaculate, eventually i started having pleasure in that, so if u want try that.