I need honest answers please!!!

[UTurn]

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[Jstr]

I think your just a super horny dude
I went through this phase and it's dying down a little

[StoppingTime]

Let me first tell you this: Scientific proof has shown that being homosexual is in fact related to your genes and DNA, and it is in fact, not a choice.
With that aside....
(I'm not gay, but I'll answer from my perspective)
I think you are probably just a teenager going through a stage of confusion and curiosity. You're still "under the affect" of puberty hormones which is making you think all these things.

Just because you watch gay pornography or fantasize about experimenting doesn't make you gay. You would have to be both physically and emotionally attracted to guys to be gay/bi.
The only way to truly find out though, is to ask yourself. Do you think you could ever be in a serious relationship with a guy, or instead, just want to fool around with him? Don't rush the decision; you've got plenty of time to figure it out.

In my opinion though, I think you are most likely straight, and just going through a very curious/confused phase, which will most likely pass.

[ImCoolBeans]

Puberty for Boys :arrow: Teen Sexuality

[cab3]

I feel the exact same way sometimes. It's off and on. I think its just you're really horny and curious to be honest sorta like me. It should die down soon.

[Ryhanna]

Being gay is not a choice. Who in their right mind would choose to be a part of such a discriminated minority? Did you choose to have an attraction to men masturbating?

Honestly, I think you're just curious. You only mentioned wanting to see this guy naked, not have sex with him.

[Weeping]

I'm sorry, but if you really think that homosexuality is a choice, why would you even need to ask this question? I mean, you're the one who decide if you're gay anyways right?

Uhm.. Being gay really isn't a choice. You can't just pick who you'll fall for. Give it some time and don't stress about finding out your true sexuality, the answer will come soon enough.

[Green Arrow]

As other people have said above, being gay/bi isn't a choice. Only you can decide what you are. If you're not sure then experiment and see how things go. I think that maybe you're just really horny, but I am only guessing that from what you said. I personally always had feelings for guys but I kind of pushed it to one side and ignored them and a few years ago I discovered that I was just trying to fit in the "norm" and fancy girls etc.

[gayprideguy12]

yeah i have to agree with everyone else being gay is definetly a choice, but soon you'll figure it out at a time in ur life

[Texas warrior]

I think your bi.

[Tiggz]

im pretty sure ur just super horny

[OregonStateDude]

I'm going to go with straight but curious. Those guys with incredible bodies will do it every time. :lol:

but if you are gay and feel like you were born gay, could you please explain how you began to realize you were gay.

For me, it didn't happen overnight, but I slowly realized that I was attracted to other guys once I started puberty. I've read that certain things can be a "trigger", but I knew I was gay even before my best friend and I did "things".

[Skyhawk]

Choice? Hahahahaha! Not funny. A lot of gay people (if not all) didn't choose to be gay and in fact, many don't want to be gay.

You're 15, your hormones are screwing with you, like all of us...huzzah.

Sorry if I sound like a jerk, but I absolutely hate it when people claim it's a choice. It's not.

/minirant

[khila]

choice people coming from someone bi its 1/2 and 1/2 between choice or not. You choose however it is ur subconsciousness so u have no ability to influence it but its still in ur thought process

[Unknown-Data]

Omg, it pisses me off when you say it's in ur genes/DNA and isn't a choice I mean really, I chose to b bi, it's not in my DNA both my parents are homophobic, look its all up to you if your gay or not. Live ur life how u Want. Ur sexuality is ur own choice

[Gordo]

Omg, it pisses me off when you say it's in ur genes/DNA and isn't a choice I mean really, I chose to b bi, it's not in my DNA both my parents are homophobic, look its all up to you if your gay or not. Live ur life how u Want. Ur sexuality is ur own choice

Why choose to not be bi then? Or choose one or the other? IDK, just wondering why you choose bi. More options?

Also curious, are your parents only homophobes and not have issues with people who are bi? Or do they view bi people as better than or the same as homosexuals?

[StoppingTime]

Omg, it pisses me off when you say it's in ur genes/DNA and isn't a choice I mean really, I chose to b bi, it's not in my DNA both my parents are homophobic, look its all up to you if your gay or not. Live ur life how u Want. Ur sexuality is ur own choice

No, no it is not your choice at all.
Do you think kids choose to be gay, bi, etc...? They get teased through high school, some severely, looked down upon by the majority of the population, I could go on. Nobody would choose that for themselves.
You didn't choose to be bi. It's just who you are.

[Unknown-Data]

Why choose to not be bi then? Or choose one or the other? IDK, just wondering why you choose bi. More options?

Also curious, are your parents only homophobes and not have issues with people who are bi? Or do they view bi people as better than or the same as homosexuals?




Why I chose bi is my own bisnuss n they view bis the same as gays. yea maybe they r made fun of, in sure if I came out now I would b made fun of brutally, that's why if they are smart they hide relationships and wait until they are ready.

[Kotaro]

Omg, it pisses me off when you say it's in ur genes/DNA and isn't a choice I mean really, I chose to b bi, it's not in my DNA both my parents are homophobic, look its all up to you if your gay or not. Live ur life how u Want. Ur sexuality is ur own choice

Maybe you choose to be bi but the majority of people didn't choose. If you wana be bi good for you :P but many people don't, so don't talk about something you know nothing about.

[kat0060]

Look your probably just curious or perhaps a little on the Bi side. both are completely natural so don't freak out or feel ashamed. if your not emotionally attracted to guys then chances are your not gay or even fully Bi.

[Shadowin]

Ok I did go through what you did go through right now. Yes i know its hard with hormones right now but i have to ask do you want anything other than sex with him? If you want an emotional attachment to him then yes you are gay/bi but if not than it is probably just hormones

[baylay11]

It's totally fine! You're probably just going through a phase, I have been through one similar. And most straight men enjoy gay porn too, because it is more realistic. So its perfectly okay. :)

[UTurn]

well i have NO emotional attachment to guys whatsoever

[KenBoy6]

I think your just bi.

[sms22]

Dude dont worry. We're teenagers and everyone is curious. Its just your hormones.

[wolfguy]

when i started going gay i just got it out of my systems and i am still diceding wheter i am bi or strait

[Kuntaw kid]

Super horny