Boyfriends

[hotgirlwtits]

My boyfriend loves me very much and I don't know if i should let him touch me in my sensitive places or not, it has been 3 months what should i do?

[Desuetude]

If you feel comfortable and ready then maybe talk about it, don't let him force you into anything you don't want to and don't think that you owe it to him.
You call the shots.

[beccaweiser]

It's totally your call, Hannah. If you want him to do that, then you can let him, but if it bothers you at all, you should feel free to ask him not to do so. Your body, your decision...

[Mortal Coil]

Since you have to ask, I'm going to be frank and say no. It doesn't sound like you're ready. Don't let him until you are 100% SURE you are ready. I can't stress this enough. :)

[Mollypop]

It would help if you said why you're unsure. If you know why anyway. If you don't know why, evil.angel is right it means you're not ready.

[Breakeven]

if ur ready and u are sure 100% about it than yea
if u dont feel comfortable than dont , if he loves u he will wait

[cheergurl]

based on how you worded the question, it sounds like you want to do it because he loves you, more than because you want to. If that might be true I'd say wait. Simply being his gf for 3 months does not mean you two need to be at a certain level. Go with the flow and if you're comfortable with him and he is nice to you and you want to sometime, then go ahead :) Just be careful and use protection if you go all the way

[Shortie]

How old are you? Maybe wait a bit if you have to ask this question, then again maybe you could reward his patience a little?

[sxyjen17]

as a younger teen, i get the feeling that "if you have to ask, you already know the answer"... if you are unsure about it, just wait...

[MarilynMonroe]

Do what you want to do, if you don't want to do anything then dont!

[byknott]

If you are uncomfortable, or unsure in the slightest, then the best decision is to wait. I totally know what it's like to be with someone new and want them to touch you and want to share yourself with them, but I also know that if you've got any doubt in you that the experience won't be the most favorable in retrospect.

Touches are just like words - you cannot take them back.

Also, remember that just because someone loves you does not mean that you 'owe' them anything, especially not your body. True love is patient and if he loves you, then he will wait for you. And you are worth the wait.

[missmk]

if your unsure your not ready

[nick2323]

It seems like you want to let him so I would say go for it but be careful. Im guessing your not ready for sex since your asking about touching each other. When I first let my boy friend touch me, I dont know what it was but I just got a good feeling of pleasure and we ended up going all the way. We had been dating for 2 years and we were prepared and ready as we knew we might do it soon.

[mhm-master123]

wait until you are ready but believe me its worth it!

[CrazyChickx]

If you want then you may ask him.

[BaronessJamison]

definitely worth it to wait

[laurenspencer]

WAIT!!!! You sound like you aren't ready yet. and remember once his penis is inside you, you are no longer a virgin. you can only use your virginity once. I don't let guys feel me up and I am still a vigin at 17 and plan to be one for a long time. If he just touches your boobs, your kitty will be next.

[anyone50]

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[Evaboo]

If u r ready my bf and I have been together for a year I didnt let him touch me until I trusted him (4ish 5 months)

[emily-candace]

NOOOOOOO, the next thing he wants is for you to touch him in his sensitive places then he will want in your panties, if he is wanting to touch you then you need a new b/f, You are only 15.

[ackmedsgirl666]

Don't feel forced into anything
Your body is your own personal properties
And if you have boundaries that you are unsure of yet he should respect that
If your not ready for anything physical yet sit him down and talk with him
And if he truly loves you he would understand :)
Don't feel pressured into anything you don't want.

[MaryBet]

Did you touch him in his sensitive place?

[Mirage]

Don't bump old threads.

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