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dman18
May 29th, 2012, 04:17 AM
Ok so last weekend I went on a mini vacation with my friends for a few days and one of my good friends brought his friend and the 3 of us all stayed in the same hotel room. So a total of 10 of us went as friends but me and him were the only ones who didn't have girlfriends so we kinda were stuck with each other. Anyways me and him have so much in common we instantly just clicked! I have never felt so comfortable with someone in life! I wanna share everything about myself to him, like secrets and all! So while we were in this vacation I kept hinting about how we should hang out after this since we live in the same city. But to me it didn't seem like he cared. Then on Sunday when we all drove back home I texted him when i got to my house and asked if he made it back ok. He said yea and that was about it. Then today I texted him and told him.good morning and if he wanted to hang out, and he didn't reply until like 5 hours later and he was all like sorry I was out doing stuff and another time. So I asked him if he wanted to keep talking or did he want me to let him go? and he never replied. So I don't want to annoy him but I wanna know if he feels the same way about me, because I swear he's like my twin were that similar! Over the course of the vacation we probably have at least 20 inside jokes with each other. That says something right? I'm really sad because I've been searching for a friend like this for like 3 years and he's perfect perfect PERFECT! When everyone else went to sleep me and him still wanted to.be out so we did all kinds if stuff by ourselves and I thought he was enjoying himself with me. I was even thinking that he could be one if my best friends but I know that's not possible because we've known each other for less than a week. Any advice would really help :( By the way I'm 18 gonna be 19 in a few months and he's 20 gonna be 21 soon

Ryhanna
May 29th, 2012, 04:44 AM
Sorry, but if he's ignoring you it kind of sounds like he doesn't want to pursue this friendship any further.

Sometimes, when you meet people in certain social situations, you get along with them but you don't really want to get to know them outside of that social situation. I think that's what's going on here.

dman18
May 29th, 2012, 04:50 AM
Really? Well that sucks :(
I mean I have never met someone I feel so comfortable with! Like I'm embarrassed about doing certain things in front of people such as dancing or singing u know? But I'm not embarrassed at all to do it with him!

Should I just tell him how I feel when I see him in person?

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Ryhanna
May 29th, 2012, 04:56 AM
I know, it sucks. I've been in the same situations many times.

You could try talking to him in person, I guess. Are you friends with him on facebook or something? If you are, try asking him to hang out via facebook. It's slightly less confronting.

Aves
May 29th, 2012, 07:17 PM
Honestly, you sound a bit clingy. Not to be rude or anything. Maybe try backing off a bit. You might be scaring him away. Just keep in touch with him, try not to sound so desperate for attention and I can see it working out fine for you two.