Feelings first? Or just go for it? Help!

[CacaoToCacao]

Well I am kind of talking to this guy about having sex and stuff. I was wondering, would it be better if we dated, developed feelings for one another, and fell in love? Or should I just go ahead and start a sexual relationship first? Sex without feelings isn't all that special. My friend said he would start a relationship first. What would you do? Also, he might come over tomorrow night so i need to know ASAP!

[CacaoToCacao]

Okay! Thank you! I'll also ask the friend I'm with he'll know what to do.

[ImCoolBeans]

P101 :arrow: Relationships and Dating

In the most sincere and honest manner, I can't truly believe that a relationship will be strong or "good" if it is based off of sex. When you are talking to somebody who you want to possibly date, and it turns into sex-talk early on, I would consider that a warning sign of what is to come.