is she right?

[Natron01]

okay so me and my gf are both virgins but we started messing around and we were talking and she thinks me giving her oral would be nasty and that bummed me out.. cuz i really wanted to try it. what should i do?
:confused:

[Andy1998]

If she doesn't want you to give her oral you really can't force her.

[Dimitri]

I think that there might be multiple reasons but all are something to consider when being with the opposite gender or partner in general.

Well, for one thing, you are both virgins, like you stated above. Thus that means she might be nervous, she doesn't know what to expect. She doesn't want to overwhelm/disappoint you by any means.

Another possibility is and I am in no way trying to be an ass, I am just covering all my bases. She may have a condition that she isn't ready to share with you and, well, quit frankly it is her prerogative as to when and if she will inform you of it should it be for that reason.

And lastly, she really might be disgusted and to be honest there are things my boyfriend doesn't want me to do and as his partner I respect his wishes. Respect her and her wishes and in time you may get to do what you wish but you also will, in a way, gain a better relationship with her.

[SwaggerIsBack]

If she doesn't want to, don't do it, guys really wanna get straight into it but gia are a little hesitant. It might take a little bit of time for her to get used to the idea

[Fruity Drink]

Simply talk to her about it, maybe if she's knows that you are eager to try it, then she might be willing to allow it.


I've never met someone that didn't like oral sex, but either way, goodluck :P.

[Green Arrow]

If she doesn't want to do it then respect her decision, I'm sure she'll come round at some point. (no put intended)