Sexuality

[runner4life]

Hey! I'm 14 and just started puberty about a year ago. Since I started, i've been having sexual fantasies about other guys. Before puberty, I was attracted to girls only.

I am totally cool with gay people, however, I don't want to be gay or bisexual for that matter. (Sorry, that sounds realllllly homophobic.)

Is it probably just hormones, or do you think I am illegitimately bisexual? If it is just hormones, when will it all stop?

Thanks for any advice you can offer! :yes::yes:

[Smeagol]

It could be just hormones. If it is, I don't know when it will stop, but if you can't ever see yourself romantically attached to a guy, then you are probably straight. Whatever you are, good luck!

[thomfoun]

If you have no emotional feeling for guys then your not gay
if you have physical feeling for guys then you could be bi
Or it could just be hormones

I'm 17 and gay
if you have any more questions just ask :D

[runner4life]

I should probably note that I am still attracted to girls, especially romantically, but also sexually.

[thomfoun]

Do you have emotional feelings for guys?

[runner4life]

Do you have emotional feelings for guys

I don't think so?:what:

[thomfoun]

Well the it most likely hormonal
I hope I've been helpful
as I say if you have any questions I'm around

[runner4life]

Well the it most likely hormonal
as I say if you have any questions I'm around

I can't PM. :(

[Taylor95]

I have the same feeling. I'm 16, and I've felt that way since I was 14. I think guys are hot, but not in a romantic way. I like girls, but I enjoy " thinking " about guys too. :P

[Lovemeorleaveme]

give it some time and don't worry about the not wanting to be gay/bi part, none of us want to go through the stress that comes with it but we have to learn to accept that we were born rhis way and its not somthing to be ashamed of.

[rebdoomer2012]

Maybe just Curious???

[Black.Veil.Brides]

in my opinion, its probably just hormones. pubery is confusing. there is times when, yhu may be confused about whats going on in yhur body, but dont worry yhu will aventually find out who yhu are! [:

[joeharris1223]

its a decision you make on you own free will

[Salm K]

i think that right now you are going through a phase in your life like you said you just have sexual fantasists about guys if you ask me its your hormones i went through that already and i am completely straight but give it some time ok




and if you want to talk i am available peace man.

[Lovemeorleaveme]

its a decision you make on you own free will

this is not nessisaraly true. Few of us choose to be something that is concidered bad and made fun of by some people. I'm not saying what you belive is wrong but when your discovoring your sexuality it can sometimes make it even more confusing when someone says its a choice,