What should i do? Help :/

[schilgen96]

Ok this year i became sure that im gay. I knew it like when i was 13 but didn't want to admit it. At first i didnt like it and wanted to die but now i got used to it. I read stories online like that 13 and 14 year old boys have sex and have boyfriends etc. But it's like im cursed! I live in greece where people are not open minded and you would never see 2 boys kissing. Im not openly gay , i have never told anyone but my girl best friend. Im afraid of the kids at school. :confused: Now i want a boyfriend or someone to have fun with but i dont know the way to find one. It isn't the same with a girl. I like a lot of boys in my school but i just cant tell them. I know that all this is embarassing but can you help me? :( I hate my life here...:confused:

[SwaggerIsBack]

U shouldn't hate your life......... Being gay is not a curse, I am straight but I dont think of gay people as weird, or bad. Your a human being and everyone is different. You will find someone. Maybe when your older join a dating site for gay people. Then you can be sure that they're gay and won't make fun of you. But in the meantime, your a great person an there's nothing weird about you.

[Tobias]

Well, you are in high school so i realy suggest to not tell people that you are gay beacouse that would just make your life hell. I have the same problem with girls. Almost none of the girls that i know are open minded. Possably the best that you could do is join a dateing site. Or try to socialise with some more open minded groups outside school beacouse alot of teens are bi sexual / curious.

[ImCoolBeans]

Puberty for Boys :arrow: Teen Sexuality

You don't need to force yourself into any situation that you aren't comfortable with; so don't feel the need to make yourself come out to more people if you are not ready for it.

[thomfoun]

I know how you feel where I live it is illegal to be gay and as a result of this some people can be vary closed minded I told on of my vary good friend that I am gay and it felt good so if you have a good friend that you are very close to and tell the and take it slow don't tell everyone at once

I'm 17 and I'm gay if you have any questions just ask :-D

[PerpetualMotionSquad]

Okai I am gay and to be honest... I like it :P ! Even though I like it not many of my friends or family will so I am keeping my sexuality in until I am moving to USA which I plan to do. I have told 3 people and if I buck up the courage I may tell my parents. I will never ever tell my friends. But seriously do not say you hate your life being gay is fine trust me :).

[Lovemeorleaveme]

Being gay, bi or anything other then whats concidered "normal" by sociaty can be hard. especially if you live somewhere where its not accepted, but always remember that your not alone and there are many others like you.

[devinity]

i have a simular problem almost every one arond me is prity closed minded however the resion i made this account was to find people like me. :)