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Heisen8erg
May 26th, 2012, 07:25 PM
Okay, well i have a big story to tell, so i might as well get started.

So this girl ive REALLY liked since August 2010, her name is Katie. I met her through my ex, and we've talked about dating so many times, but in the past ive ALWAYS been hurt by her, but we always end up talking again afew months after.

So in December, we started talking again, and the same old shit happened, she didnt like me so i didnt wanna talk to her, so we stopped once again.. But in January, she messaged me saying she was really sorry for the past, and she realized im what she needs and she cant live without me.. I thought it was a big joke, but i reaaalllyy like this girl, so i gave her the chance. We talked, and got really close, and after about 2 months we officially started dating.

So things were going great, until the beginning of this month, there was problems with some kids and she gave me her facebook information so i could see what he was saying to her.. And i went on and read a bunch of stuff like her holding hands with another guy at school.. And her telling other guys she wants to have sex with them..

I also read her talking to another guy.. He offered to send her a picture of his dick and she said yes.. And she said she would have sex with him.. And she told him shes had sex with 4 other guys.. When i ask her about this she tells me none of it is true, and she was just stupid.

She told me she was a virgin, and we were gonna have sex, until i read about all this stuff.,.. Its really heartbreaking, and when i tried to leave her she said she promised she was never going back to that kind of stuff.. So ever since then we havent been dating, just seeing eachother, and shes let me check her facebook and everything, and she seems pretty loyal now..

Its a hard decision, because i reaaalllyy like this girl, and i have for a loong time, but after shes done all this stuff to me i really dont know if i can trust her again..

Please help me.. Im having such a difficult time with this situation..

Greg1994
May 26th, 2012, 07:45 PM
All I can really say to you is let it go. I know you must like her and all, but she's obviously not worth it. Just think, most likely what happened can and will happen again. There's plenty of people out there!!!

Smeagol
May 26th, 2012, 07:48 PM
If she has done this she is not a good person to be going out with. There are plenty fish in the sea, why choose one who has done this?

SwaggerIsBack
May 27th, 2012, 12:05 AM
She sounds like a bitch! But just trust ur instinct. If these ppl don't like you , a lot of these can be photoshopped

Aves
May 27th, 2012, 12:24 AM
It could be one of two things. She's either really truly sorry and wants your forgiveness, or she really just wants to have sex with you. If it's the first, I'd accept her back. If it's the second, I'd walk away.

purplepeopleeater
May 28th, 2012, 07:07 PM
Well, she lets you see her facebook. That's good, but it's just her facebook. She has other ways of communicating with ither people. But if you decide to give her another chance, be reeeeaaaally careful and cautious.

Ryhanna
May 28th, 2012, 07:12 PM
I'd give her a chance. You never know, she might truly be a changed person. If she hurts you again, I suggest walking away. You don't deserve that.

Heatbomb21
May 28th, 2012, 09:46 PM
I'd go with my gut on this one. If she's really so importtant to you, then give het one more shot and try to work through any lies. If not, then drop it. Not worth your time.