Need advice/opinions

[LitBlackRose]

So I just started a long distance relation ship with a friend I meet ant a con but he's much older than me but he told me that he loves me and I love him to. Any advice?:confused:

[Desuetude]

How much older is he? and what would you like advice on, I mean is he expecting you to go and meet him because you can never be too careful about the people you meet online. Some people lie and use you to get what they want. How are you expecting the relationship to progress?

[unnamed94]

you are 14. avoid any trouble if he is much older. somewhere around 17,18 could be ok but not if its more. im almost sure you dont love him

[Fruity Drink]

Love is a very strong word, long distance relations tend not to last, and you're underage.

I suggest you let it go, and find someone you can 'love' within your city, or school.

[LitBlackRose]

I do he's 17 and I have meet him in person before because I meet him at a convention. I really do love him for who he is. We just started to go out but we've known each other for 2 months now.. And I wanted advice on how we can meet or what we can do in our situation

[Desuetude]

Well it's still a bit iffy. I mean, you can have no sexual realtionship for 2 years or it would be classed as rape/abuse even if you give your concent. People will frown upon it because you're a lot younger and although it might seem as though it's an okay thing to do you really should think about this more. You've only known him for 2 months, be careful. All I can say is if you do go and meet him again then please tell someone where you'll be, take as many precautions as you can because you really can't know a person that fully in such a short amount of time, especially meeting them over the net.

[Green Arrow]

I don't know to be honest. It is iligeal to have a sexual relationship with this guy because he is over the age of 16 and you're not. If you're comfortable with it and your family are as well, then I don't see any problem with it. However if he starts to pressure you into things you don't want to do then make sure you tell someone! :)

[Aves]

Just be careful. We aren't here to tell you what you can and can't do. I think it's fine as long as you're both mature and know where the line needs to be drawn.

[Harley Quinn]

Just be careful. We aren't here to tell you what you can and can't do. I think it's fine as long as you're both mature and know where the line needs to be drawn.

This ^

From my experience long distance relationships aren't worth it and to be brutally honest, it doesn't matter if you're in "love", I just don't think it'll work out. However, you could take that as constructive critism and do it anyway. In that case, make sure you go with a friend to meet him even though yes, you've already met him. There's safety in numbers. Considering that you've been dating for two months, you either decide that its going nowhere serious of you do your best to make it work. Either way, do what's best for you and what feels right.