Best friend sex

[panick]

Well, I m in a very big trouble.
Let me tell you what happened.
Yesterday night we have arranged with the best female friend of mine that we will go to a party.
When she came at home so as to go together at party, she announced me she would sleep in my house, because the day after she had a project to do near my house. i said of course okay but warned her that I have only one bed.
Not analysing much, we drank soo much that we started kissing and making pacifiers to each other. then we ended up at sex.
In the morning, her boyfriend called her that he is out of her house (he stays permanently far away and they are in distance relationship - he also knew that she would sleep in my house) and waiting to open the door. We were so stressed that moment we didnt know what to do.
Last she supported that we were drunk and had made a bet and she lost and thats why i made this smack in her neck.

THE PROBLEM is that her boyfriend doesnt believe her and she feels soo bad right now.
What can I do ?
I dont want her to break up, although I love her, because I want to be happy with the person she chose.!
Help give any suggestions related. :)
Thanks for your time.

[Ambrosia]

:arrow: Relationships and Dating

[unnamed94]

dont try to make up any lies or anything. best thing to do is stick to with what happened and make her tell her bf the truth even if that means their relationship is over.

[Fruity Drink]

dont try to make up any lies or anything. best thing to do is stick to with what happened and make her tell her bf the truth even if that means their relationship is over.

This exactly.

Her boyfriend would obviously be very upset, and if she can't stay committed to someone, she probably should be with them. I would be very ashamed if I was you, drunk or not...


At least it was a best friend, and not some random chick wi a tough, rough boyfriend. ;). Hope that makes you feel a little better! Hehe.

[Aves]

I'd say have her tell him, and if she won't do it yourself. He needs to know. Maybe he'll react badly, maybe he'll be mature and understand. You are in the wrong, no denying that - however, the best thing you can do now is confess and apologize.

[panick]

she did and said to him, and he reacted being very disappointed. he didnt say anything but her relatioship is a little frozen now, but I think they will be again together. w8ing and we will see :/

[pdidyking]

It's not your problem even though you caused some of it..... It's her problem, let her work it out.

[Desuetude]

It's not your problem even though you caused some of it..... It's her problem, let her work it out.
Well seeing as though it's HIS friend and he wants to help her and the fact that it was caused partly by him I'd say it was his problem but eh.

What she did was the right thing, being honest is the best thing to do if you want a real relationship. You have to admit, at least he didn't beat you up or anything, that's good, right? :P but just wait it out. Maybe go and see her boyfriend and explain that you're sorry, it might help with getting their relationship back in tow.

[Gordo]

What can ya do? : You can ask her that. Only she knows what would help. However, I wouldn't lie for her and it doesn't look like you'll have to.

Don't feel too bad about the whole thing, I'm not saying you deserve a gold star or anything, but the trust that was violated was between her and her BF, not between you and her BF or even you and her (she? lols on the she).

In the movies I always think of mis-directed anger when a guy walks in on his GF and she's with another guy. Unless he's raping her, it was her choice, but the it seems like the guys always get in a fight when imo, the woman was the one the BF has an issue with. The BF-GF may have an exclusive relationship and the only people that are looking out for that relationship are those two. Everyone else is just part of the scenery.

[CharmOfTheSOuth]

Talk about it.. Get it off ur chest

[Akasuki]

You know, if I were her, I wouldn't have slept in the same bed as you in the first place. I would've slept on the floor or something. I also wouldn't have lied to my lover about it because no good relationship in which both of the partners love each other would lie about something like that.
I would talk to her about it and tell her to tell her boyfriend the truth, and if she doesn't, tell him the truth yourself. Their relationship wouldn't last anyway if she lies about shit like that.

You should feel bad. Being drunk isn't an excuse. You knew what you were doing, it's not like you were brain dead. But it's not all your fault because she knew very well that she was cheating on her boyfriend.

[panick]

I did so I talked to her boyfriend. Now they are good together....
The problem now is that she called me in the weekend and asked me if she could sleep in my house (friendly). But i said to her no.
I dont know if she's acting like it never happened or she wants to happen again... :/

and of course i feel bad... i dont know if i knew what i was doing. I just remember now, but then i dont think i could control myself. whoever girl was next to me that time, I may wanted to have sex with then. +plus for my friend "I used to" love her...

[panick]

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