virginity and marriage???

[leafgreenangel]

do you believe that you should wait til marriage to have sex??? i personally think that sex is an important part of a functioning adult (not teenage) relationship. I think sex maybe can help you know if your compatible or to check if you still have that spark in the relationship. leave your opinion because my friends jokingly tease me because i'm not going to wait. i just wanna know your opinion. also leave your sexual orientation.

[SwaggerIsBack]

Hey I think that sex as a teen is fine asking as you use protection and your ire that this is what you wanna do. I'm undecided if I'm straight or bi.

[riotroger]

Sex is a very important part of a relationship. I always think its 30 (physical attraction) - 70 (mental attraction). The physical attraction is for me a stepping stone to being attracted to someone, and if we get along mentally (similar ideologies, personalities, etc) then I'd want to make the relationship official.

Sex is so important and many people underestimate how it can make or break a couple. I would definitely have sex with whomever I want to get into a relationship with before even making ourselves exclusive and official (I don't put out before the 4th date, but if I care about them more I might wait until the 7th-8th date out of respect, plus sex isn't everything in a relationship). The way I see it, finding a boyfriend/girlfriend is like choosing what car to buy. You don't buy a car without test driving it do you? Not that people are cars... That's just the best metaphor I could come up with haha.

I'm sort of undecided. Mostly straight but have experimented with guys before, so somewhere between straight curious and bi.

[Short Circuit]

This is all about morals, and if you have any. Where I live, there are NO 14 year old virgins (and that is not a joke). You would be laughed at if you said "I am saving myself for marriage" Like riotroger says, "you gotta try before you buy"

I am straight, but have had one experience with a boy.

[Sean4U]

Its to late for me to really wait, but I think that there is a BIG difference between sex and love....we are all sexual beings and if you feel you want to wait that is an individual decision...I am gay and have had sex with guys. The real question I have for myself really is are guys more able to just have sex for sex with another guy than with a girl or is it just easier for guys to fool around with each other than with a girl cause of the fact that we can sleep over and use the same locker room and maybe not have others know that we have sex?

[Rashard1997]

Im straight-curious
I plan on waiting until i get married, and alot of my friends are doing the same.

[RedViper]

I think that you should just do it when you're ready and with someone you love (by love i mean actual love, not one of those 14 year old couples that have been together for twelve seconds and already 'love' each other). In my opinion marriage is pointless altogether. You don't need a ring and a piece of paper to show that you love someone.

Oh and Straight/Curious.

[Diverperry]

My personal opinion is that sex should happen after you are married. Having sex before hand usually makes the relationship base too dependent on sex and not on emotion and actually having feelings for each other. i think premarital sex is part of the reason for the rising divorce rates
i'm straight btw

[wild1]

Its for when you meet somebody very special.

[SamB]

I'm gay, and because I have been brought up in a Christian family most people automatically assume that I am going to wait for marriage, however I think that sex is something that will happen when I am in a relationship that I know means a lot to me and the other person. I don't want to have sex with someone who I have know fro about 10 mins, I will wait for the right person, but that will probably not be in marriage.