My friends make plans in front of me but don't invite me.

[Cablez]

I'll be walking home from school with my friends and they ask one another if they're coming out later or going into town or to the movies or something. There does be about 6 of us and they invite everyone except me. I would ask if I could go too but that would seem rude would it not? Why would they not invite me? Thanks for any help.

[Skyhawk]

My friends do this to my other friend, it's really annoying and rude. They're dramatic attention whores anyway.

Maybe they aren't your true friends.

[Cablez]

My friends do this to my other friend, it's really annoying and rude. They're dramatic attention whores anyway.

Maybe they aren't your true friends.

I was thinking that but one of them often suggests that he says i should hang out with him one of the days but another actually said to me that if x doesnt come out to me then ill go out to you, so I'm not too sure

[jessiecox1]

Doesn't sound like true friends to me...maybe you should try to find some new people to hang out with.

[DarkNick]

First of all you should ask them if you can go with them as well...
If you notice that they are acting strange or they're being rude during the night out (or whatever :P ) / or if they didn't invite you at all ,then ask them why are they doing that.
I wish you best of luck :)

[Green Arrow]

My friends do this so then I ask if I can come and they think I'm rude for asking? I'm sorry but if you're making plans right in front of me don't think that I am not going to want to do anything with you guys to. :L

[DerBear]

Sometimes this happens, all about quality time with friends,

However if it does happen very often and you paractically never get invited out with them then they don't sound much like friends to me. You should maybe try making the plans because that way you can invite all your friends and if you do it often enough then they might think of inviting you.

Also something to think about. If you have rejected plans with them in the past then I they might be thinking that you don't like going out and they might not invite you. That is just something to think about. A way to resolve this would be to make plans with them and in return they will perhaps start making plans with you.

Hope this helps
Derri

[Steve Jobs]

I found myself in that position. If I was invited, it'd only be because they wanted something from me, like to give them rides or bring food. I gave up on them. I wouldn't know what else to do.

I couldn't give a horse's ass about them anymore. They wanna talk, fine. They aren't my friends and that's how I've left it. :/

[Cablez]

Thanks for the replies! I've actually been invited out twice since this! I've also built up the courage to invite others places.

[Black.Butler]

Doesn't sound like true friends to me...maybe you should try to find some new people to hang out with.

This is written on your "friends'" foreheads.

[botwa]

well I guess you will have to find new friends