There's this guy I like...

[GoofyGal13]

Ok, so I really like him, and we're sorta friends, but we're not really close, like best friends, just friends. His girlfriend just dumped him a couple weeks ago. I'm not sure what to do. And the thing is, I'm not going to get to see him in rl 'till at least August. But I reeeeeeaaaaaaalllllllly like him. :wub: So what should I do? Should I wait until I see him again to say something? Or should I send him an e-mail? Or a Facebook message? Or what? And when I do tell him, what should I say? Help!

[RCT109]

Well Im in the same boat [but genders reversed] and I would say tell him on facebook if you wont see him next week

I mean Ive been planning to tell the girl i like for a while and Im gunna send her a fb message soon cuz i wont see her until tuesday and thats it

But in regards as to what to say just put it like this
"Hey,
There's something I need to tell you. I've been wanting to tell you now for about a month.
I like you and I have for a while.

Will you go out with me?

Maddie"

thats kind of what Im going to tell the girl I like so hope it works

Shawn

[Aves]

Roby is on the right track. I would message him on Facebook, but not tell him you like him or say "would you like to go out with me." I'd message him asking to go out somewhere, don't say it's a date though. Just say something like "Hey, wanna go to the movies/downtown/the mall/park/etc." If he says yes, you know he might be interested, and then you can also tell him that you like him in person.

One thing girls tend to make a mistake of is thinking guys will accept "facebook message confessions" as 100% truth. I never believe shit like that whenever someone says that to me. There's no way of telling who actually sent that or if they meant it. That's why you have to do it in person, or at the very least a phone call or Skype.