Friend Wants Them

[Kazooie]

So it's one of my friends birthday tomarrow, and he is turning 16. Anyways, the other day he sent me a message saying he wanted one of those pictures of myself, but I am not really comfortable doing that. How should I tell him without offending him?

[Tom Stone]

Just because he wants one doesn't mean he should have one. If you don't want to do it, don't do it. And tell him you're not comfortable with it.

[Devonb97]

Draw a picture saying "sexually explicit" c:

[christianteen]

Just say that you don't feel comfortable with that. Simple.

[bradhodson]

Just tell him no

[Short Circuit]

Sounds creepy to me, but what do you mean by "one of those" pics?

[SwaggerIsBack]

Just do t reply and act like u never saw the messege

[Scarface]

Sounds creepy to me, but what do you mean by "one of those" pics?

I'm guessing it involved nudity or penis, either way, don't do it. One of the most unintelligent decisions in the world if you do it, all it takes is him getting mad at you or something worse and someone seeing it on his phone. It's a clusterfuck of disaster, avoid that.

[lolwutsuperslide]

if he wants dick pics just tell him you don't feel comfortable sending them to him

[iloveladygaga]

Don't send him a pic! Thats far too dangerous for a person you know because he could just want it to embarass you!!! Instead if you really want to do someting for him, show him in real life. Just ask him over and drop your pants!! :P :)

[ImCoolBeans]

Just say that you don't feel comfortable with that. Simple.

Thats really all there is to be said about this. Just tell him no.

[CryWolf]

I'm guessing it involved nudity or penis, either way, don't do it. One of the most unintelligent decisions in the world if you do it, all it takes is him getting mad at you or something worse and someone seeing it on his phone. It's a clusterfuck of disaster, avoid that.

^^^This covers it man. You aren't obligated to do anything like that. And if it offends him? That should tell you enough about his intentions right there.

[ItsJustJack]

just say you either dont feel ready to or you dont feel comfortable with it

if he doesnt like either of these answeres or persists wth wanting images then he is not your true friend

[Green Arrow]

If you don't feel comfortable with it then you don't have to do it. Just because it's his birthday doesn't mean you have to give him everything he wants.

[jessiecox1]

Just tell him no and that you're not comfortable with doing that...end of story/discussion.

[Coolcat1314]

I say if youre uncomfortable then just tell him no. If you want to show him but dont wanna send the pic (which sending is a bad idea) then just show him in person. I'm sure thats better than a pic anyway

[asdfghjkl1234567890]

*removed*

[leafgreenangel]

he want that cake cake cake cake cake... etc - Rihanna
anyways i wouldn't send it because of the possibility of it backfiring.

[Kazooie]

Thanks everyone, I told him that I wasn't comfortable doing that, and have yet to get a response back. Hopefully this means he respects my decision, but if he doesn't, well I don't need a person like that in my life right now.

[patty143]

hmmm if this request for a nude photo of you (im guessing that is what he wants) is out of the blue, that is a bit. i think you should talk to him about it, because he obviously has some kind of attraction to you

[Red-X]

tell him how you feel, if hes ur friend then he'll understand

[Trinity_15]

tell him taht your not comfortable with it at this point in time. maybe another time

[Sean4U]

He may want on of them but that doesn't mean you HAVE to send it to him. Tell him your not comfortable with a picture like that out there. He's a friend and he should understand that.

[Idk what to put]

If u don't feel comfortable doing it dont

[habbohop]

Don't do it if you're not happy doing it,

[The realist]

Just tell him how you feel about it

[deathmoonO2]

if you don't one to give him some of your pics and you feel shy, then don't.

[CranberryBridge]

Just tell him you're not comfortable with it. And if he wants to go off, just ignore him.

[justinglives]

Offer him a handjob instead. See how reacts.

[mrfrog871]

If he wants a pic i would send him one, iv done it before, i sent a pic of my bluge... and he never asked again.
If he is a true friend he'll not send it to anyone

[deeda95]

If you are not comfortable sending him a pic, then don't a friend will not hate you for it, just don't make a big deal bout it just say you don't wanna

[ehao0817]

just say no

[curiousme]

well, if your uncomfortable with sending them to your friend tell him no because ur uncomfortable with sending them simple as that

[Aidoon123]

Ask him why he wants this picture firstly , and then just say no unless his reason is like a non nude picture cause your friends

[Alexwellace]

Draw a picture saying "sexually explicit" c:

Genis! Do this ^^

[Michael Anthony]

Offer him a handjob instead. See how reacts.

LOL i like that suggestion
seriously, i wouldn't send a pic like that, you never know where it will end up.
if he wants to see you naked and if you dont mind him seeing you naked tell him he can come over to your house and you'll let him see you.

or try the handjob suggestion :yeah: