Does it sound like I am Curious, Bi, or Gay?

[Cicero]

So I'm 17 and still confused about what I am. I have been told my disease causes late puberty so that might be a reason.

But as of right now, whenever I get horny, the first thing I'd rather go to is gayporn. I think some women are beautiful and pretty, but I'm very picky about who I think is beautiful. I can imagine a future with a woman. I can imagine coming home from a hard days work and talking about my day with a woman. I can imagine having a family with one and sleeping with one. But I cannot imagine doing anything sexual with one. I personally think the vagina looks gross, I only like the butt and boobs.
With guys, I can imagine doing a bunch of sexual stuff with. I've only somewhat experimented, but I've never actually touched another guys dick or anything, just jerked off with a guy. But I cannot imagine coming home and telling my problems to a guy, or marrying a guy. I can only imagine having fun with one sexually.
But overall, whenever I think of a future, I imagine it with a woman. But whenever I get horny, guys are the ones I think about. I don't fap to women, but guys. I cannot imagine growing old with a guy, i only imagine growing old with a woman and that's it. I also never crave sex with women, I just crave to experiment with guys.

So is this normal that I think vaginas look gross? Does it sound like I'm bi, gay, or curious? Could my disease be apart of the equation, knowing it causes delayed puberty? What are your thoughts?

[PerpetualMotionSquad]

Wow errrr.... This is really hard :/. Your not gay cos u think of women emotionally. U may be bi. Going against what I believe stereotypes a bi I still think u may be one. Because u have said you'd wanna be with a girl but not wanna b with a boy yet do sexual stuff with them. This is my assumption anyway because this has really thrown me :P. Sorry if I wasn't much help :)

[Sonic Boom]

You seem to only like guys physically, but not used to the idea of being in a relationship with one yet. So you sound gay to me.

But if puberty is not finished with you like you said, I don't think you can simply label yourself right now. Just give yourself some time. Goodluck.

[Short Circuit]

You say your 17, and suffered from delayed puberty, but did not say at what age you actually started it. This could just be hormones that you get at the start of puberty and make you want to hump everything in sight.

Personally, the only label you need to put on yourself is HUMAN, no need for anything else

[ImCoolBeans]

only label you need to put on yourself is HUMAN, no need for anything else

As ideal as that would be, it will never happen unfortunately. Labels exist now, they always have and always will. While there is no need to label yourself, it's bound to happen, however you don't need to abide by the stereotypes that come with the label.

[Cicero]

You seem to only like guys physically, but not used to the idea of being in a relationship with one yet. So you sound gay to me.

But if puberty is not finished with you like you said, I don't think you can simply label yourself right now. Just give yourself some time. Goodluck.

Most of the time I only like them when I'm horny :/

[Sterling26]

you're in the identical spot i was a year ago, so let me explain this as best as i can. so many people on this site, with the best of intentions, only make things more confusing and offer less concrete and more sugarcoated answers to your questions. the first thing to understand is the world isn't made up of gay, bi, and straight people. sexuality is a spectrum, with tons of people in between those three orientations. the orientation that you are isn't based on what you're solely attracted to, but what you PREFER. yes you can imagine life with a woman, probably because you've witnessed it so much in your life. but when it comes right down to it, when you jack off it's about guys, and you want to sexually be with guys. all the "emotional attraction" stuff is bs, the root of all strong lasting relationships is SEX, because when it comes down to it if you're not sexually attracted to someone you're not living the rest of your life with them. when you find that guy that you're attracted to and will grow to love, everything else will fall into place. you my friend are gay, and there's nothing wrong with that. the longer you stay in denial about the more years of happiness you will lose, so i urge you to just accept it now and be happy. i hope this helps.

[Stronger]

Honestly, if you were to pick one, it would maybe be bi, but this is a tough situation. But at 17, does it matter, I mean you still a "kid" :P Maybe if you check this (http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=125182) out, it will help you with any questions, I don't think your gay, but straight? Probably not, but thats just my opinion. Not sure on the whole delayed puberty thing, it could maybe confuse you on this whole thing, but that's something I'm not too sure about.

[Fruity Drink]

I'd just say curious... until you've had sexual experiences with people of both sexes, you really won't be certain. It's all up to personal preference, it's no big deal no matter what you chose.

[PandaLeah]

I'd just say curious, but I am not a guy lol ;p I agree with ^^^

[Cicero]

you're in the identical spot i was a year ago, so let me explain this as best as i can. so many people on this site, with the best of intentions, only make things more confusing and offer less concrete and more sugarcoated answers to your questions. the first thing to understand is the world isn't made up of gay, bi, and straight people. sexuality is a spectrum, with tons of people in between those three orientations. the orientation that you are isn't based on what you're solely attracted to, but what you PREFER. yes you can imagine life with a woman, probably because you've witnessed it so much in your life. but when it comes right down to it, when you jack off it's about guys, and you want to sexually be with guys. all the "emotional attraction" stuff is bs, the root of all strong lasting relationships is SEX, because when it comes down to it if you're not sexually attracted to someone you're not living the rest of your life with them. when you find that guy that you're attracted to and will grow to love, everything else will fall into place. you my friend are gay, and there's nothing wrong with that. the longer you stay in denial about the more years of happiness you will lose, so i urge you to just accept it now and be happy. i hope this helps.

Here's the thing, I'm physically and emotionally attracted to girls. I am just very picky.
I'm sexually attracted to guys and that's it. When I see guys kissing it doesn't agree with me. For me, it's better watching 2 girls kiss. I know I couldn't kiss another guy, not because I wasn't around it enough. But because it doesn't agree with me. I agree more with the other posts that say I'm not attracted to it cause I haven't tried it.
I personally think that emotional and physical attraction is more important than sexual. Because, I couldn't imagine holding hands with a guy or kissing one. I couldn't imagine growing old with a guy. But I imagine doing all that with a woman.

I mean, is it all based off of sexual attraction? Or can't it be based off of emotional and physical?

To Brandon

Thanks for that, it really helped :)

I was reading under the "bi-curious" section and it said.

"-You have a strong sexual attraction to girls but a minor one to guys
-You have a strong emotional attraction to girls but a minor one to guys
-Seeing same-sex sex turns you on
-You truly have no clue about your sexuality. This often means your bicurious.

Those are really the only things I could think of as to why you may be bicurious. "

But here's the thing. I have a strong sexual attraction to guys, more than to girls. I have a super strong emotional attraction to girls, and probably 0% toward guys.

So does that still make me bi-curious?

And in the beginning of the paragraph it says it only matters of what I think of in the long run. So since I imagine marrying a woman and having kids with one and telling everything about me or my day to one, I'm straight?

[CrossingtheCourtyard]

Well that depends, would you be satisfied (emotionally and sexually) in a relationship with a woman in the long run?

[Cicero]

Well that depends, would you be satisfied (emotionally and sexually) in a relationship with a woman in the long run?

:| I've said several times I would emotionally.

[CrossingtheCourtyard]

That's the thing though, would you feel sexually satisfied? Would getting in bed with your wife to do the deed gross you out?

Or would you still be curious about everything with men?

If you know that you would never want to share your life with another guy then you have your answer as to what your orientation is, regardless of whether you find some men sexually attractive.

[Cicero]

That's the thing though, would you feel sexually satisfied? Would getting in bed with your wife to do the deed gross you out?

Or would you still be curious about everything with men?

If you know that you would never want to share your life with another guy then you have your answer as to what your orientation is, regardless of whether you find some men sexually attractive.

Well idk of it grosses me out. I've never done anything like tht.

[WiiRemoter]

No matter what ends up happening, just remember you don't need to label yourself. You are a human being, and im sure things will become clear for you in the near future.

[Cicero]

No matter what ends up happening, just remember you don't need to label yourself. You are a human being, and im sure things will become clear for you in the near future.
Here's a good answer :|
As ideal as that would be, it will never happen unfortunately. Labels exist now, they always have and always will. While there is no need to label yourself, it's bound to happen, however you don't need to abide by the stereotypes that come with the label.

^that^