Why is she treating me this way?

[Pink Floyd]

So for the entire school year I have always had this crush on a girl, she's beautiful, smart, and nice! Through out the year she was always nice to me and did some sort of things that gave me the indication she liked me. We never talked or texted though. Two weeks ago I received a random text from her and we started talking from there, after talking for a while we flirted a bit and she said she thought i was cute and I told her I really liked her and she likes me back. A week later I took her on our first date (we're not dating) ..we watched the movies and held hands. She seemed really happy..then ever since then everything went completely weird.

Ever since Monday she has been acting like a different person to me, she seems bitchy, irritable, when she texts me she barely says anything, it freaks me out cause I feel like she doesn't like me. The first day she started acting this way I confronted her about it and asked what's wrong ..she said she's been stressed out about sports and homework. (Which still doesn't give her the reason to act this way towards me) so I brushed it off. Tuesday she was being the same way..she never even texted me(SHE ALWAYS TEXTS ME FIRST) So I confronted her about it and told her that her behavior and her attitude is sending me mixed feelings and it's really bothering me..I told her the way she acts annoys me.. the convo went like this

Her: Well If I annoy you then I'll stop talking to you! I would want that if someone was annoying me
Me: Oh wow, I said its the stuff your doing thats annoying me, you barely talk to me anyways!
Her: Alright.
Me: What the heck?
Her: What?

Then It just continued on and she told me to stop freaking out, which I clearly wasn't..she never even puts smiley faces in her texts anymore. She doesn't even really talk to me in school..what's going on?

[BuryYourFlame]

You need to chill dude. Stop reading so much in to stuff like the presence or lack of a few extra characters in a text message.

It's possible that you might have come on a bit strong or that there's other stuff going on in her life that you don't know about. Not all her actions or her moods are going to be related to you and she isn't going to feel like sharing absolutely everything with you if you two only just stared talking. Saying that you were annoyed because of something she had done wasn't exactly tactful. Maybe her always having to text first is part of the problem, I don't know, but you need to put in the effort to start conversations as well or she could start thinking along the lines of what you think when she doesn't text you.

Your initial date went well so that's a bonus, just give it a few days and then ask her how she's going and go from there.

Just remember: keep calm, don't read in to things so much, and please...be tactful.

[Pink Floyd]

It's not that, she is acting like a total different person then she was last week. She is being a bitch, ignoring me, and she barely says anything. Besides, before then she was an awful conversation starter and flirter, I did all the work, I made the conversations..

[unnamed94]

as james said, why would you notice if her texts are missing the usual smiley face or not.
although it seems like a good thing you asked her why is she acting like that, you maybe were too harsh on how you said it to her. she may be having problems at home or whatever that you may not know and instead of helping it seems you irritated her. you shouldnt be paying attention to who texts who first or how much smiley faces you put. try to talk to her to tell you whats wrong without coming out too strong or making her feel like that (you know her so you should know better than me)

btw how old are you?

[therunaway]

I'm sensing a case of something similar to what happened to me, back off her, if you don't; you'll the whole thing. Trust me, girls don't like when you keep up their ass all the time, I found out the hard way, always stressing over who she talked to and why she didn't talk to me instead, if you do lose it; you'll still feel like you're still in a relationship with her, even if you aren't, I still feel this way and it sucks total ass. Back off her man.

[Sordid Saint]

I'm sensing a case of something similar to what happened to me, back off her, if you don't; you'll the whole thing. Trust me, girls don't like when you keep up their ass all the time, I found out the hard way, always stressing over who she talked to and why she didn't talk to me instead, if you do lose it; you'll still feel like you're still in a relationship with her, even if you aren't, I still feel this way and it sucks total ass. Back off her man.

Read what this wise man said :)

[Aves]

First of all, don't act like that because of one date that she has to be a certain way to you. She is allowed to be herself, and if she truly is stressed, you should accept that. She's not being a bitch, she's trying to get what she needs done. To be completely honest, you seem like you've been a dick to her. The way you've worded how she's been acting and how she's been treating you makes her look like the victim.

Don't go around causing a big commotion over her being stressed. Help her through it. Oh, and if you've done anything wrong, said anything bad, apologize. It will go a long way.