Unsure

[DarthMayim]

I think that I am bi, but I don't want to tell anyone because I get harassed enough as it is. What should I do?

[PerpetualMotionSquad]

I'd keep it to ur self until u leave school cos then u get a new bunch of friends at college or wherever u wanna go

[Mortal Coil]

Yeah, keep it to yourself. You don't want people to harass you even more. I'm sorry you have to deal with that :(

[Ryhanna]

That's sucky. I think you should just keep it to yourself, for now. If people are harrassing you as it is, you don't want to risk giving them something else to tease you about. :(

[Tristin.]

If you are getting harassed already, then against my usual recommendation, i would think it may be best to remain 'in the closet'. However, if you are sure, it may be best to tell your family and maybe a friend you trust. They can help and support with coming out and even with the harassment you already have. all my luck x

[DarthMayim]

I'm mostly afraid of my parents finding out...
See my family is Christian, myself included, and Christianity frowns upon being gay :(

[PerpetualMotionSquad]

I am not Christian but doesnt it say somewhere in the bible "Jesus died for your sins?" Plus since they're your parents I'm sure they'd accept you. When I come out I am not telling all my friends but I am telling my parents first. I think it seems easier. :)

[Incompris]

Yeah, keep it to yourself. You don't want people to harass you even more. I'm sorry you have to deal with that :(
yup its probably the only thing you can do if you dont want to get harassed, it will suck but the only thing I can think of.

[Tristin.]

When christianity is the issue, i like to point out that the bible also claims that if you eat shrimp, cut your hair and have sex with a woman during her period, you should be stoned to death. Thankfully, those rules are over looked. Therefore, depending on the variation of christianity you follow, you can still tell them. If God exists, then he made you as you are, he made you special and different from other people so that one day you will find someone special and make him happy. As i said before, talk to your parents and tell them. If it gets too bad, which i hope it does not, you can always say "it was a phase" but i would only do that if something horrific occurs. all my luck x

[joeharris1223]

only tell who you can trust, i came out to my friends at school but then we moved so i lost all those great friends, and sort of had to go back in the closet. so the worst part is having to do that.

[LyaJen]

I guess i woudn't tell people. but otherwise,
SCREW EVERYBODY ELSE. you are who you are.

[Lovemeorleaveme]

Well before you tell anyone you yourself have to figure out what you are. one way to test if your bi or not is to do this. go somewhere quite were you can be alone think away from all outside influence,you have to be yourself for this to work throw away from your mind all the things that tell you being gay is wrong. 1rst of all, can you imagine yourself in a heathy relationship with the opposite sex, getting married when your older growing old with someone the other gender if yes your not gay. Now do the same thing but this time with the same sex, does it feel right, if you can imagine yourself with both genders then you are mostlikely bi-sexual.

[DarthMayim]

I guess it was just a curious stage thing then.
This can be locked now :)