I'm Confused! Please Help!

[kim2014]

I'm a girl,and i like boy's.But,i want to be a boy......i'm not gay.But,i want to be one I'm so confused.does everyone go through something like this?

[Aηdy]

Its probally just your homones going crazy, it may go away, so just give it some time and see how you feel in 6 months to a year. It's nothing to worry about, lots of people go through phases like this.

[TeenInNeed]

i know exactly what your saying, i have also wished i was a girl when i was younger because my hormones were off the charts, and i just wanted to be a girl so i could just play with myself and watch myself in a mirror, im over than now, and you will too at some point. it's normal and your hormones are just jumpin all around.

[MoveAlong]

What does being gay have to do with being a boy/girl? :confused:

I agree with rok.my.sox and TeenInNeed

[TeenInNeed]

What does being gay have to do with being a boy/girl? :confused:

I agree with rok.my.sox and TeenInNeed

then rep me :) had to do that, and i believe that the answer to your question should be quite obvious with how long you've been here and with what all you've read...

[MoveAlong]

Well the question is that why do people think that? It's stupid...a gay guy doesn't want to be a girl, and a lesbian doesn't want to be a guy. A person who wants to change their sex is called a transsexual.

And no I will not rape you!!:P

[Gumleaf]

then rep me :) had to do that, and i believe that the answer to your question should be quite obvious with how long you've been here and with what all you've read...


i don't think that you should be asking people to rep you (although i think you were joking in this case?). a good reputation should be gained by helpful advise to other people, not through being asked for it. i have 600+ posts and rep 1. who cares! if people like my advice, then by all means rep me, but i like to give advise to help people and do so to the best of my ability and experience to make them feel better about themselves and help them in their situations, not to gain a high rep and make me feel better.

[MoveAlong]

i don't think that you should be asking people to rep you (although i think you were joking in this case?). a good reputation should be gained by helpful advise to other people, not through being asked for it. i have 600+ posts and rep 1. who cares! if people like my advice, then by all means rep me, but i like to give advise to help people and do so to the best of my ability and experience to make them feel better about themselves and help them in their situations, not to gain a high rep and make me feel better.

Let's not talk about this Rep thing here
Although I gotta say that your Rep Power isn't the same thing as your Rep Points, and people give you Rep Points...I think I made that pretty clear
You just haven't been here long enough to have a Rep Power of 2

Now all the other posts below this one should be about the topic :P

[Gumleaf]

Let's not talk about this Rep thing here
Although I gotta say that your Rep Power isn't the same thing as your Rep Points, and people give you Rep Points...I think I made that pretty clear
You just haven't been here long enough to have a Rep Power of 2

Now all the other posts below this one should be about the topic :P


your right, i was in a "mood" when i wrote that. so sorry to all concerned. :whoops:

[Learn2Bsmart]

It's a natural curiosity, as many other people have probably said. Sometimes i wish i was a girl, mainly to get away from embarrassing male things like untimely erections. Maybe girls would like to be boys so they would get away from the menstruation. Or the desires could be sexual. Either are main reasons for wanting this.

Don't worry too much about this. Besides, it's not like your actually gonna wake up one morning with short hair, no breasts and a penis. We are all stuck with what we are. :D

[RowanVer.3.0]

Well the question is that why do people think that? It's stupid...a gay guy doesn't want to be a girl, and a lesbian doesn't want to be a guy. A person who wants to change their sex is called a transsexual.

And no I will not rape you!!:P

No, but thing is, gay guys tend to be more feminine(some wear make-up, bright colours and even purses). So, since they have effeminate characteristics, people classify them as girly.

Same goes for lesbians, they get emasculate qualities, and are classified as butch(wear boy clothes, try to achieve large muscular bodies).

Postscript- You aren't gay obviously, since you've said so yourself. You're just going to have to come to the realization that you are a girl, and will never be a boy. There's not many things that girls can't do that guys can, so just do what you enjoy. I know plenty of tom-boys who have boyfriends and et cetera.

[questionz]

i know what you mean. sometimes i want to be a girl, but only temporarily to know what its like. like im sick of having the same old thing...

[Sapphire]

It is nothing to worry yourself about. Many people experience this sort of thing.
Some experience this but only for a few fleeting moments of curiosity. While some others experience this for longer and more intense periods of time. Others genuinely feel as if they are meant to be of the opposite gender and these feelings don't go away.
Only time can tell and seeing as it hasn't lasted for you I'd say that its mainly curiosity or something of a similar nature.