The One...

[xXoblivionXx]

I know this is all going to sound really dumb but I guess I need to get this out.

I have really begun to hate love. I mean every time I fall for a guy they act like they care and then just leave me. Am I that bad of a person? That ugly? No one cares about me. I just want a guy that can make me feel special, a guy that will listen to what I have to say and try to help me, a guy that is cute and funny, a guy that isn't loud and obnoxious, a guy that I can be myself with (no makeup or high heels), a guy that is offering his shoulder to cry on and warm hugs to protect me. Every time I let someone into my heart they just break it. I'm sick of this happening to me. I just feel so lonely and desperate. I want someone that I can care about and someone that will care about me...

[Sordid Saint]

It's not dumb, because everyone feels that way. I would keep trying if I were you, just don't let anyone TOO deep into your heart until you know exactly who they are. Eventually you'll find someone that truly cares and isn't just looking for love, but a real caring relationship :3. Hope I helped

[Ryhanna]

Don't worry, everyone feels that way every now and then. I'm sure you'll find a guy who can give you everything you want one day.

By the way, when you described what you want from a guy, I was thinking "That's literally everything I want." It's hard to find.

[xXoblivionXx]

Thanks guys. Are my expectations to high? I mean I really want a guy with all of that :3
The thing is I rather not be in a relationship if it isn't the real thing...

[Sordid Saint]

Your expectations aren't high. There's dudes that really do care and actually mean what they say honestly. I know for a fact, believe me :P

[unnamed94]

dont settle down for anything else than what you expect from a guy. you will end up finding someone with everything you just listed so dont feel you are asking for too much

[Ryhanna]

Thanks guys. Are my expectations to high? I mean I really want a guy with all of that :3
The thing is I rather not be in a relationship if it isn't the real thing...

You're expecations are not too high haha, if anything, they're rather low. I mean, just wanting a decent guy to love and care about you isn't asking for much. But it's surprisingly hard to find.

[xXoblivionXx]

I know... why can't I find him? The thing is every time I try to find him some one takes advantage of me :(

[Ryhanna]

I know... why can't I find him? The thing is every time I try to find him some one takes advantage of me :(
Don't worry, you'll find him soon enough. :) You just have to keep looking.

[Sordid Saint]

Don't worry, you'll find him soon enough. :) You just have to keep looking.

qft :)

[Abyssal Echo]

I know this is all going to sound really dumb but I guess I need to get this out.

I have really begun to hate love. I mean every time I fall for a guy they act like they care and then just leave me. Am I that bad of a person? That ugly? No one cares about me. I just want a guy that can make me feel special, a guy that will listen to what I have to say and try to help me, a guy that is cute and funny, a guy that isn't loud and obnoxious, a guy that I can be myself with (no makeup or high heels), a guy that is offering his shoulder to cry on and warm hugs to protect me. Every time I let someone into my heart they just break it. I'm sick of this happening to me. I just feel so lonely and desperate. I want someone that I can care about and someone that will care about me...

nah you're not expecting to much...I think we are all looking for the samething. to love and loved in return. Dont feel bad I feel exactly the same as you.