Hooking Up

[Markhen221]

What you yall think about hooking up? I ask because I am bi and I am currently talking to a 11th grade guy who is 17(Im 15 in 9th grade) and he is also bi. He really thinks I'm hot and he wants to hook up. Everytime he asks I sa know. I might want to because I do like him but I'm still on the fence. What should I do? What would you do? :confused:

[KarkatLuv]

well, always be careful for one thing. But if you like him, trust him, just do what you want. But I can't stress this enough, be careful, be cautious, be safe!

[Mortal Coil]

If you have to ask us, then chances are hooking up with him isn't the best idea. If you're on the fence, as you say, then don't do it. A lot of people rush into that and then regret it later.
If you do decide to do it, however, be careful, be safe and make sure you trust him not to go around telling people that you're a hoebag.

[acurasrock]

I wouldn't do it bro. 2 year difference is no big deal, but if all that will ever come out of it you think would be "hooking up" as you say, then nah, not worth it. Find a guy, or girl for that matter that is worthy of you!! You are better then that, im sure.

[ImCoolBeans]

I personally really don't like loose, casual hook-ups. I think it's pretty low and degrading to do. If you do choose to just hook up, you might not be happy with how you feel afterwards. Often you'll feel low, and somewhat disgusted by the fact that you just did sexual acts with someone who is basically a stranger and only was in it for the sex.

[PerpetualMotionSquad]

I'd say dont do it since ur still on the fence. But it is also all depending how long u have known him for.

[Black.Veil.Brides]

age doesnt matter... thas not the problem and whoever told yhu that is wrong because there is no reason why yhu coulndt go with him cuz his age... yes if yhu rasking us it probably isnt the best thing to go for.

[Electra Heart]

Although I suppose they can be fun during, on occasion. They typically end up with more regret than you began with. It can be dirty, degrading, and there's always that awkward point in the morning. In addition, if you don't personally know the person, there's always risks of STI's. I try to steer clear of all casual hook-ups because: a) If you know the person, it can become extremely awkward later on, and b) If you don't know the person many dangers can come from having sex with a stranger or even an acquaintance.

[Drew5]

Go and hookup. It's not like he's a total stranger and it'll be fun. Hookin up is just something to do, not like a serious relationship. It's just two people doing stuff

[spiderdude]

If you both like each other then it's simple, ask him out

[ImCoolBeans]

Go and hookup. It's not like he's a total stranger and it'll be fun. Hookin up is just something to do, not like a serious relationship. It's just two people doing stuff

That is horrible advice. He could have an STI or another rash or something that he could get, it's just a risky situation that would be best if it were just avoided to be honest. What if he ends up falling for him, but the guy really only had intentions to use him for sex because he knew he could, that's not a pleasant feeling, and it's not one that anybody needs to feel.

[JessDaly]

what do you mean by hook up?