View Full Version : im bi but i dont know how to come out!!
billybigfish
May 19th, 2012, 08:13 PM
ok so ive been comin out to my closest friends but i feel like its time to come out, but i dont know when how and who to, i feel like i wanna tell someone one second, but the next the urge is gone, can some one help!!!!!!!!
itsthat0n3kid
May 19th, 2012, 08:37 PM
Well first I think this belongs in the sexuality group.
Anyway, one of my good friends came out to me recently and he just flat out told me. He waited until we hung out and just told me Nd I was fine with it.
If your going to tell someone just get them alone and tell them. If theyre a true friend they won't treat you any differently.
Good luck man. :D
Bojan
May 19th, 2012, 08:43 PM
When I first came out it was only to close friends and people I trusted but then one day I was like I don't I am who I am and if some people don't want to accept me for that then I don't need to know them and the best way to do is just to straight up say it just say to who ever you wanna tell hey I just wanna let u know I'm bi. I found that worked best for me
Jefflikespie
May 19th, 2012, 09:23 PM
A friend just made a comment on how he choose which character to play on an RPG game based on the character's good looks, be it male or female. He said that his preference could go either way. Another friend asked him if he was bi and he said yes. It was all very matter of fact. I believe he told us because he knew we are open-minded. So if you feel the need to identify yourself as bi, start with trusted open-minded people.
Bojan
May 20th, 2012, 01:38 AM
When I first came out it was only to close friends and people I trusted but then one day I was like I don't I am who I am and if some people don't want to accept me for that then I don't need to know them
StoneColdNicky
May 20th, 2012, 01:46 AM
If you aren't sure, maybe leave it until you are. What have those people you have told said? Is there any reason to rush through it?
FullyAlive
May 20th, 2012, 02:40 AM
puberty 101 :arrow2: Teen sexuality
PerpetualMotionSquad
May 20th, 2012, 02:02 PM
Well to start its always when u feel the time is right. I am coming out to my parents soon and this is how I plan to do it. I am just gonna write a note explaining it all and putting it on their bed. I am then gonna say look on ur bed while I go for a walk. I am gonna go for a walk to take in what I've just done and when I return they'll hopefully have took it in and accepted me. I am hoping anyway :D
Lovemeorleaveme
May 20th, 2012, 04:19 PM
Plan when your going to do it when you know your compleatly ready.
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