Bi Curious, anyone like me?

[DinoWeeno]

Okay so i'm 16 and recently ive been watching gay porn and feeling attracted to guys, i consider myself straight because i still like girls and have had girlfriends. I havent told anbody about my dilemna because its kinda hard and dont want to classify myself as bisexual yet. As of right now i think im curious but in the future could be bisexual.

I just want to know if anyone else is feeling this too, haha Thank youu :)

[horde]

It's a feeling i had once, that then turned into me being bisexual and then having favor towards guys over girls. I also had a friend that I experimented with from 5th grade through 10th, but he's only had girlfriends and is currently not really interested in doing stuff with guys anymore. What you're feeling is normal, but I don't think it confirms if you're either gay, bi, or straight. I think you still have more time before you'll be absolutely sure what you are. Don't stress it.

[DinoWeeno]

Thanks, i agree too like im sure its just feelings/phase and im not leabelling my sexuality yet but i do want to experiment and hook up with guys its just hard because i dont want anyone to find out. its too hard in high school to come out

[Jefflikespie]

I believe that sexuality is a spectrum and not a set of clearly defined little boxes to classify us. Sometimes you might feel a certain way sometimes another, and as time goes by you might gravitate towards one way or the other. It's just our cultural guidelines that push us.
Without our culture we might be like the bonobo chimps or dolphins, the other most intelligent species on the planet. They are all pretty much pansexual.

[Ohthatguy45]

Im with u bro, im the same as u but im scared to come out pm me and lets talk! :D

[Nlcoahran]

I'm 14 , and the last year maybe I've been having the same feelings.

[Joshy1305]

Im gay :$ Oh but Im out so if you have questions message me:)<3

[Asiandude]

I had those feeling, im attracted to some guys but i want a relationship with a girl

[Bpitt]

I am 15 I am having feelings like that to and don't want people to find out

[ExhibitG]

Okay so i'm 16 and recently ive been watching gay porn and feeling attracted to guys, i consider myself straight because i still like girls and have had girlfriends. I havent told anbody about my dilemna because its kinda hard and dont want to classify myself as bisexual yet. As of right now i think im curious but in the future could be bisexual.

I just want to know if anyone else is feeling this too, haha Thank youu :)

I totally understand where you're coming from. I started with that too but now I've noticed I'm more sexually attracted to guys than I am girls. I realize this is probably at least bisexual, but even now I'm constantly in denial. message if you ever wanna talk! :)

[ddbumblebee]

I use to be bi (well I thought at least) coz I did exactly what you have been doing but now I'm pretty sure I'm st8 coz I've passes that phase now

[FullyAlive]

puberty 101 :arrow2: teen sexuality

[KarkatLuv]

I used to feel like that, I don't anymore though. For some people it's just one of those "time will tell" situations

[JJSSHH]

Dont try to Label yourself. Just give yourself time to figure things out.

[Jstr]

I know exactly how you feel! :D that's currently happening to me!

[PerpetualMotionSquad]

I did have that feeling but I found out I was gay :P. All I'm gonna say is just because you've had girlfriends doesn't mean ur str8. Conversely nor does watching gay porn. So I'd advise to not label yourself for a while :)

[riotroger]

I believe that sexuality is a spectrum and not a set of clearly defined little boxes to classify us. Sometimes you might feel a certain way sometimes another, and as time goes by you might gravitate towards one way or the other. It's just our cultural guidelines that push us.
Without our culture we might be like the bonobo chimps or dolphins, the other most intelligent species on the planet. They are all pretty much pansexual.

Totally agree. I also think you can't be sure if you truly like one gender to the same degree that you like the other unless you experiment with them sexually. I have a friend who thought I was attractive and had expressed interest in experimenting with me, but it never happened. Its a year later and he claims to be 100% straight now... so I think he was just curious/had his hormones raging.

If you're willing to test how much you like guys then find someone interested in guys as well and experiment with them. See if you like spending time around them the same you would with a girlfriend, if you like kissing them in the same sort of relationship, and if you are willing to have sex with them. If you can't picture yourself ever dating or committing to another guy then I would say you aren't gay/bi but just curious. I don't know, I would just experiment but its entirely up to you dude.

Hope this helped xD.

[Stronger]

Dont try to Label yourself. Just give yourself time to figure things out.

This, don't lable yourself yet, you still seemed to be pretty confused, I' say I'm in the same boat as you, since I feel like I probably am bi, but I don't wanna come out or come to terms till I've dated a guy, all that stuff.

Also just because you watch gay porn does not mean you are gay, maybe curious, which is what it seems you are, but being gay means, you are sexually, emotionally, physically attracted to just guys, not girls.

Give it more time, like if you start feeling any of those, then maybe question yourself but for now just enjoy yourself, don't slap a label on yourself till you know you are bi/gay.

[Papibear]

I feel you pain I have come as bi to some friends and I have experimented and like but I still feel like I'm in an awkward place

[Dowlking]

I have only had relationships with girls but have increasingly found myself looking at the men in pornos

[james wolf]

Yeah, i've never been with anyone but I watch all porn and I definitely know boys who I would like to.... ;) But after I wank I feel disgusted by the thought...

[Tony223]

I totally understand where you're coming from. I started with that too but now I've noticed I'm more sexually attracted to guys than I am girls. I realize this is probably at least bisexual, but even now I'm constantly in denial. message if you ever wanna talk! :)

same goes for me

[aggresivechild]

i feel good about being bisexual, cause hey, bisexuality doubles your chances for a date on a saturday night

[asdfghjkl1234567890]

If this is something new, consider for a second that it could be a phase. During puberty allot of males say they go through a very curious stage. Some people think just because they are curious makes them gay/bi, and its just not true. You are who you are... give yourself enough time to figure it out yourself.

[Taylor95]

I think it's just a phase. I'm in it right now. :P
I like girls and I've also got a girlfriend, but I like the occasional wank at gay porn. :P

[Dowlking]

I had those feeling, im attracted to some guys but i want a relationship with a girl

I have very similar feelings to you, however i'm sttill tairly certain that i would prefer a relationship with a girl.

[sofa-king-chill]

yeah i feel you

[Irishperson15]

yes i have this recently too, but i realised that when im not horny i would be disgusted at the thought of that

[Nellerin]

I think a lot of guys feel like through curiosity. Sometimes the curiosity turns into being Bi but not always.

Sometimes I feel that way as well but would only want a relationship with a girl.

[jamesh]

I'm the same - and I don't know if that means I am bi or not, but I do know that I enjoy messing around with boys, but really only want to date girls... I also get more turned on by boys, but that may change i suppose

[Jake777dylan]

I am like you bro its what's going on with me but I think I'm bi all the way it will come to a descion your going to have to make one day girl or boy id like to talk with you about this I need someone in the same situation I am to help each other out :)

[KenBoy6]

Im currently going through that phase.

[Kuntaw kid]

I'm going thru that phase at the moment

[eggy101]

i want to fool around with both

[AndCuriousGuy16]

Your in the same stage im in. Lets talk!

[TronMau5]

Im with you 100%.
I've been getting extremely attracted to guys for some reason, but im like a sex slave to woman x.x
It truly makes no sense. But its happening.... :T
So I feel that i wanna do something with a guy... But it would most likely just end @ sex.(If it ever goes that far O_o) Id never date a guy. Its just not something Id do. Only female relationships.
I dont think its a bad thing, I just think its a phaze, and if its not, then fuck it Im probably bi. Doesnt mean everyone has to know.

[RoseyCadaver]

I thought I was just curious at a point but then I ended up being bi leaning towards gay lol.

[vitorioso]

Do not worry about it, I am exactly the same. I think I am attracted to certain certain things about guya and different things with girls. Sexuality is a spectrum, so do not classify yourself :-)

[Natekelly]

Im actually going through the same curiousness. but i like girls too not for physical reasons like boobs and all that but for their personality and uniqueness. im into the other gender for both reasons. anyone message me or IM me or whatever ide like to talk and if anyone wants they can talk to me about stuff.

[RayRay]

Yup i am

[dazz15]

i have the same problem

[qwertyuiopasd]

yeah i same the problem with you. definitely would wanna try to hook up with a guy but on the down low of course. just to kinda figure things out if you know what i mean ;)

[whiteyrhys]

Hay :)

I've never really been in this situation before as I've only ever really been attracted to guys but what I'll say and what I've said in previous posts is that experimenting is the best way to determine whether or not you like guys and are attracted to them.

[whiteyrhys]

Hay :)

You're definitely normal...Experimenting is really the only way to determine whether or not you like the same sex or both the same and opposite sexes - that being with the same weighting is down to you and your preferences.

Wait until you're entirely comfortable with your own sexuality then when you are tell a close friend or few friends that you are able to trust fully - but make sure you know yourself as it may be difficult to repair damage done after revelation.

Take your time and enjoy being a teenager! It only happens once :)

[loganbenson]

Some guys are attracted to watching guys wishing that they were them.

[Iamkittykatxx]

I'm Bi Curious also. I've never had a boyfriend or girlfriend though.. I have been really confused about what I am lately.

[Ohthatguy45]

Im bi!!! Hehe sooo glad i accepted it and now love it :D

[smallbone]

Yeah, i've never been with anyone but I watch all porn and I definitely know boys who I would like to.... ;) But after I wank I feel disgusted by the thought...

Lol i am the same way. I think it is just cuz im really horny, and just want action. I felt the same way after my friend and i did it.

[yankeefan]

ya i feel like that too

[smallbone]

Have you tried to play with a guy before yankeefan?

[iblameyouforthis]

I am feeling this way as well. For the last probably two years or so I have been noticing that I find girls attractive just as much as guys and that I get crushes on girls too sometimes. I feel like if a girl asked me out I would probably give her as much of a chance as any guy. I haven't really dated anyone at all yet though so I am really inexperienced and I can't say for certain how I would truly react in a situation until it actually happened.

[cool_guy1212]

now a day's ........I watch guys porno and feeling attracted to guys.

[Losing Sanity79]

Well, the same thing happened to me. I was totally straight, but I finally chose to be bi.

[coolcuriousteen]

I'm 15 and I am having feelings like that too and I don't want anyone to find out!!

[Sean4U]

Just cause you watch gay pron and find it exciting, doesn't mean your gay/bi....its just that the visual stimulation is too much and you find yourself getting excited....yes, I'm gay, and I still watch bi/str8 porn ...cause its exciting...don't be to fast to label yourself ...if you try something with a guy and like it...it might be that you are bi, or just experimenting....let nature take its course...I think str8 guys find it exciting seeing another guy cum too...and might feel they might be bi, but just like seeing how others masturbate or whatever....

[weston123allen]

me to idk what is going on to me PM ME

[weston123allen]

i know i would to

[KenBoy6]

Just wait and see what you like?

[KenBoy6]

I wonder that myself

[hey_mister]

I'm like that too, I'm curious but I think being bi may be coming down the road, I wouldn't consider yourself bi, unless your emotionally attracted to guys to.

[eggy101]

You'll be fine its just oart of the hormonal process

[imless]

Maybe time will say who you are in the future, whether your girl side will go over or the guy side.

[crisel]

If you will stick to it, then you will be one.

[Drew5]

I don't do phases.

[Danny_boi 16]

Okay so i'm 16 and recently ive been watching gay porn and feeling attracted to guys, i consider myself straight because i still like girls and have had girlfriends. I havent told anbody about my dilemna because its kinda hard and dont want to classify myself as bisexual yet. As of right now i think im curious but in the future could be bisexual.

I just want to know if anyone else is feeling this too, haha Thank youu :)

I have the same feeling right now. But a classify myself as bi or questioning, or curious

[Aidoon123]

Dont stress it , you still have to wait a while to be sure. Remeber those horomones? :D

[curiousme]

I feel exactly the same as you bro

[Machinegun]

you're not the only one who feels like this


I have learned by experience that it is better to say nothing cuz u are not sure about it

maybe in a year or two u will figure out
(believe me I didn´t know what I like neighter,when I was ur age)

,wish u the best
: )

[Brice]

I go through the exact same thing!! It's curiosity. Or that's what I believe, anyway.

[ramgoat647]

Yeah, I feel like this too. I think a year after I start puberty, I started feeling attracted towards guys. I am more attracted towards women but there are some guys I like. I'm not sure if this is due to puberty so I'm not going to say anything yet just in case if, after puberty, things change. Good luck to you.

[Silver Assassin]

Im bi. If you are emotionally and sexually attracted to both genders, you may be bi. If not, you're really just curious

[Benji1]

I'm the same and love fooling around with guys but as soon as I'm done I really regret it. Same with girls except without the regret afterwards... Content Removed. -StoppingTime

[DerBear]

Please don't bump old threads :locked: